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Old 06-21-2015, 06:16 PM
 
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I'm a 20 year old guy from spain..I recently realized that me and my old friends grew apart enormously..My friends are really pessimistic when it comes to girls,they say things like "You cant get a girl unless you have a great body,an expensive car and a lot of money".Most of them are virgins and the other ones havent had a girl since middle school..Not only that but they never really like going out.Here in spain we have so many beach bars and night clubs but the only thing they want is playing video games and drinking beers at the park...I'm at a point in my life where i want to change.I want to go out,meet girls,socialize,make new friends,go on trips,go to clubs etc..but i dont have anybody right now...I dont go to school or university and getting a job is very difficult here..Where can i meet new people?? I really want to make a new start in my life..
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Old 06-21-2015, 06:57 PM
 
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Glad you got away from you friends. You've named a few places already. Gyms, taking classes to support your hobbies, etc. are good places too. Do you have any ambition besides finding love? A career you would like to pursue to support your future dating adventures? It would be difficult to find a mate if you don't have any money or dreams, or goals. You might have to focus on getting yourself established first before having some dates.

You could find new friends instead of dating; and hopefully, they'll recommend you to some jobs.
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Old 06-21-2015, 07:20 PM
 
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Old 06-21-2015, 08:42 PM
 
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Just get out there. Talk to people. Take chances. Get burned. Get rewarded. Live life.

Sorry if this seemed like a meme
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