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My parents would kill me because he's 50. For us the age doesn't matter. We get along so well and he knows me so well. We could be on Skype and he knows exactly what I'm thinking just by looking at my facial expressions. He's everything that I've been looking for in a guy.
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Originally Posted by owls19
My parent's don't know about him and I don't like guys my age their too immature for me.
How did you "meet" this old man?
Run, now! I'd think it sketchy if he was a local 50 yr old hitting on you. But he's 50 and lives in another state, he should be looking for local women, hell even a local 18 yr old makes sense.
There is no possible good outcome from a 50yr old being sexual interested in and flying a teenager out to visit him.
You might think boys you're age are "too immature" but you're just as immature and naive as them.
Please don't go see him. If he's real and his intentions are true he will come to you.
I have their very immature and it was a horrible situation. People who know me really well say that I'm more mature for my age and I actually agree. I know that I need someone older who will actually understand me and I've found that in my boyfriend
50 is not just someone older--50 is technically old enough to be your grandfather--heck in some places he could be your great grandfather.
Next up--special news report of 18 year old girls that think it's okay to meet some older man she met online because she needs someone "mature" and then they become part of a human trafficking ring. Report features the OP. Are you prepared to do porn or become a prostitute? Are you prepared to give up college and your future? Are you prepared to be sexually abused?
I know a lot of 50 year old real men. Not one would be interested in an 18 year old girl. The men are too mature for that nonsense. The only 50 year olds interested in 18 year olds are not quality people and want one thing--
BTW--Listen to your gut. It's telling you that this relationship is WRONG. Dump it. If it was right you would have no concerns about telling your parents. I'm beginning to understand why they treat you like a "baby."
50 is not just someone older--50 is technically old enough to be your grandfather--heck in some places he could be your great grandfather.
Next up--special news report of 18 year old girls that think it's okay to meet some older man she met online because she needs someone "mature" and then they become part of a human trafficking ring. Report features the op. Are you prepared to do porn or become a prostitute? Are you prepared to give up college and your future? Are you prepared to be sexually abused?
I know a lot of 50 year old real men. Not one would be interested in an 18 year old girl. The men are too mature for that nonsense. The only 50 year olds interested in 18 year olds are not quality people and want one thing--
btw--listen to your gut. It's telling you that this relationship is wrong. Dump it. If it was right you would have no concerns about telling your parents. I'm beginning to understand why they treat you like a "baby."
Run, now! I'd think it sketchy if he was a local 50 yr old hitting on you. But he's 50 and lives in another state, he should be looking for local women, hell even a local 18 yr old makes sense.
There is no possible good outcome from a 50yr old being sexual interested in and flying a teenager out to visit him.
You might think boys you're age are "too immature" but you're just as immature and naive as them.
Please don't go see him. If he's real and his intentions are true he will come to you.
How did you meet him?
I met him on Facebook. He friended me messaged me said he thought I was cute and we just started talking. He's coming for a weekend in July and he just finalized his flight!
My parents would kill me because he's 50. For us the age doesn't matter. We get along so well and he knows me so well. We could be on Skype and he knows exactly what I'm thinking just by looking at my facial expressions. He's everything that I've been looking for in a guy.
Seriously, age is just a number and true love conquers all!
Except, they don't tell that age doesn't matter when it matters and it matters most of the time, and there is no true love. You tend to believe there might be but you may want to try Vegas as they have much better odds.
Love fades away, our feeling changes, we change.
As for your boyfriend, go meet him in a public place first. If you plan to sleep with him, make sure he uses condom. Wasn't there a study showing almost 50% of people have Herpes? The older you are, the higher the likelihood you have it, and a condom doesn't protect you.
Don' take things too seriously so that it won't hurt much in the end. :-)
My parents would kill me because he's 50. For us the age doesn't matter. We get along so well and he knows me so well. We could be on Skype and he knows exactly what I'm thinking just by looking at my facial expressions. He's everything that I've been looking for in a guy.
I met him on Facebook. He friended me messaged me said he thought I was cute and we just started talking. He's coming for a weekend in July and he just finalized his flight!
Rather convenient. Keep any female friends away from him, btw. That might be the end of your beautiful courtship.
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