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timberline742 · 06-23-2015, 11:12 AM

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Originally Posted by caverunner17

You can get tested, you know.

How many people do that before every casual hook up?

Precious few.

Its rare to find people that even get tested >1 a year, if that.

caverunner17 · 06-23-2015, 11:14 AM

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Originally Posted by timberline742

How many people do that before every casual hook up?

Precious few.

Its rare to find people that even get tested >1 a year, if that.

I guess I was referencing a consistent FWB or relationship, not your ONS

timberline742 · 06-23-2015, 11:17 AM

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Originally Posted by caverunner17

I guess I was referencing a consistent FWB or relationship, not your ONS

Well I haven't had a ONS in probably 7-8 years, but even so, with a FWB there is no monogamy, so you have to assume they'll be sleeping with others, or people they're dating.

jaypee · 06-23-2015, 11:19 AM

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Originally Posted by caverunner17

I guess I was referencing a consistent FWB or relationship, not your ONS

A person can have multiple FWB relationships at the same time. You going to keep continually "verifying" your FWB partner before each session?

TabulaRasa · 06-23-2015, 11:23 AM

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Originally Posted by jaypee

Yeah, that Dial Anti-bacterial soap works great, doesn't it?
Smells good too.

Who needs Dial? Apparently, you can just wait the STDs out. I hear being abstinent for a year clears things right up.

timberline742 · 06-23-2015, 11:25 AM

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Originally Posted by TabulaRasa

Who needs Dial? Apparently, you can just wait the STDs out. I hear being abstinent for a year clears things right up.

I thought you can tell by looking at them. The ones that look nasty are the ones to be concerned about. Nice girls are fine.

Yiuppy · 06-23-2015, 11:27 AM

He was going to walk out and never be with you again eventually anyway. What the heck did you think being a sexstress and eff buddies was all about? Friendship? Girl, no. Skeet on and/or in you and that's done. Its not personal. If this is the lifestyle you want, get used to guys not caring about your feelings. Being a sexmate isnt about you nor your feelings, its about him getting off, and you getting off. Then its over. Thats it.

If you want a loving relationship with someone who cares about you, volunteering to be used for skeeting isnt the way to go.

TabulaRasa · 06-23-2015, 11:27 AM

Maybe it only works for Van Halen fans.

timberline742 · 06-23-2015, 11:29 AM

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Originally Posted by TabulaRasa

Maybe it only works for Van Halen fans.

Didn't work for the band. They had penicillin on their rider (along with M&MS (no brown ones)).

laorbust61 · 06-23-2015, 11:32 AM

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Originally Posted by timberline742

I thought you can tell by looking at them. The ones that look nasty are the ones to be concerned about. Nice girls are fine.

This is one of those areas where "an educated guess" on whether a person is clean or not, will not do. The stakes are high if you guess wrongly.