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Old 12-19-2016, 09:04 PM
 
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I appreciate that people are trying to be kind, but giving people false hope is not OK.
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Old 12-19-2016, 09:28 PM
 
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I would and did. I ended up marrying her. Best thing that ever happened to me.
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Old 12-20-2016, 07:11 AM
 
Location: TN/NC
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My dad is 60 and was cross eyed. He had surgery for it as a boy and looks normal now, but is essentially blind in that eye.
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Old 12-20-2016, 10:07 AM
 
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The thread is old, but I'll respond.

In high school? No. Teenagers are horrible.

Now? Yeah. I could. Physical attributes aren't as important anymore.
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Old 12-20-2016, 03:04 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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I appreciate that people are trying to be kind, but giving people false hope is not OK.
Yes I agree

Based on that I'd say a definite no. I'm sure I've got a few unattractive flaws about my person that a few good people wouldn't find attractive or would cancel out any of my other features as well

Although this might just be because I've not really met in terms of dating that had a lazy/crossed eye ...I'm probably not the best judge
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Old 12-20-2016, 03:36 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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I appreciate that people are trying to be kind, but giving people false hope is not OK.
Hope is all some people have.

Could I date a woman with a lazy/missing/glass marble eye? Sure! Ive dated worse.
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Old 06-22-2019, 04:26 AM
 
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I understand how you feel because I was born with a lazy eye. Right from my childhood I develop hatred for people who mock me when they notice my wondering eye...but when I get home, I look at the mirror and see how beautiful I am; I say positive things and let go of every bad feelings... every single day.
HOW I LIVE NOW- I pay no attention my eye, its kind of difficult but it boost my confidence in approaching people especially ladies.
- I shade-up my eyes sometimes, cos it gives me that facial strength
-Can you date a guy with a cross eye?? Even a crippled man get a fine lady for a date...I have received a no from a girl before but **** it, she doesn't deserve me... there are 1001 girls out there for you; but don't give them the impression that you hate your crossed eye.
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Old 06-22-2019, 10:31 AM
 
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This is an old thread, but kind of an interesting topic so I'm replying. Yes, I went on a date once with a very pretty girl who had a lazy eye. I would have liked a second date with her, too, but she ended up cancelling. Even just in terms of looks, a cute smile and fit build more than make up for it IMO.
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Old 06-22-2019, 01:45 PM
 
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IMO yours is hardly noticeable. And yes, people wit6h that condition do date. Is that you with the glasses, too? If so, I would look for rimless glasses, if I were you. The rims framing the eyes tend to accentuate the condition.

OP, do you not have any female friends in school? No one you hang out with or have lunch with occasionally, or whatever? People who accept you would be the ones to consider inviting to prom.

Honestly, I can't believe people still get all worked up about prom. It sounds so 50's.
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Old 06-22-2019, 01:46 PM
 
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This is an old thread, but kind of an interesting topic so I'm replying. Yes, I went on a date once with a very pretty girl who had a lazy eye. I would have liked a second date with her, too, but she ended up cancelling. Even just in terms of looks, a cute smile and fit build more than make up for it IMO.
Absolutely! Or a great personality in the case of a guy.
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