is she lying about bring pregnant. this is crazy (date, sociopath, boyfriend)

[Petunia 100]

This doesn't make a whole lot of sense. Did she have a d & c or not? Did they give her the first pill at the clinic or not? (The first pill kills the embryo, the second one begins the process to expel the dead embryo.)

In the future, protect yourself.

[Lilac110]

Yeah, you got yourself a bunny-boiler.

Do NOT sign any birth certificates. Weebly is right. Wait until after the birth, then get a paternity test.

But frankly? I think she's lying through her teeth, there is no baby, and she's just being psychotic.

Also, if you have the photo of the positive pregnancy test, do a Google Image Search for it. She may have just gotten one off the internet and sent it to you.

The rest--about using condoms every time--goes without saying at this point, right? Right?

[Dark Unicorn]

Wow... you found a space cadet.....

All I can say is document, document, document. No more contact. Don't give into the poor me crap any more.

If you have to file an order of protection, do it. Show the police your phone and your sisters phone.

Then you get to wait. Lucky you.

BUT CUT OFF CONTACT NOW.

[Ginge McFantaPants]

Offer to go to her next prenatal appointment, and see what she says. Is she doesn't want you there, she's probably faking the pregnancy.

[Poohbear1234]

Didnt get through whole thing, but my gut reaction is that she is taking the money you are giving her for these "procedures" and using it on herself. I think it is a big scam.

[rbohm]

paragraphs are your friend. however i did at least skim this somewhat, so here goes;

1: DO NOT sign ANYTHING she puts in front of you. you need to keep your options open

2: if she is pregnant, make her have a paternity test to prove the child is very possibly yours

3: at this point i would cut off all contact with her, and if she pushes the issue, file for a restraining order against her

4: STOP GIVING HER MONEY until such time as she can prove that the child, if there is one, is yours.

[MissClutterbuck]

I hate women like this. They give nice women like me a bad name and men lump us all together as a result.

OP, you sound really young, really naive, or both. Why haven't you gone with her to confirm the pregnancy? Why is she sending Snapchats of her test? Have her pee on a stick while you are there and show it to you. My goodness. Herbal thing???????

Once you get this resolved and behind you (hopefully soon and not in 18 years) please be wise from now on. Don't use women for your play toys, especially if they want a relationship. Don't have sex without reliable birth control. And for the love of Pete, read up on and get comfortable with the female anatomy so you aren't so easily fooled next time!

[MissClutterbuck]

Originally Posted by Poohbear1234

Didnt get through whole thing, but my gut reaction is that she is taking the money you are giving her for these "procedures" and using it on herself. I think it is a big scam.

I think this is likely. I forget what show it was on (Shameless??) where one girl would threaten to tell a guy's wife unless he gave her $$ for the abortion.

[bebe182]

Not sure I understood the post, it was pretty hard to follow, but what I got from it was she's not pregnant and she's lying to you about that pill so you give her money for it (or whatever she was telling you she needs money for). I'd suggest she go see a psychiatrist instead of an obgyn, looks like you may have a bit of a fatal attraction on your hands.

[carnivalday]

Okay, I actually kinda finally read it. My eyes hurt.

Only thing I have to say is if she ever hits you with child support (which Im pretty sure will never happen), get a paternity test.

And never ever talk to her again. Ever.