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Old 07-05-2015, 02:31 PM
 
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When you were texting Dude?
We went on the trip on the 4th (Saturday) the dude called me Friday night. I wouldn't text him while on a trip with my man. I wouldn't text anyone really. That's precious time.

 
Old 07-05-2015, 02:33 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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"Friends" said the women posting in the romantic/relationship sub forum, Lol.
 
Old 07-05-2015, 02:33 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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We went on the trip on the 4th (Saturday) the dude called me Friday night. I wouldn't text him while on a trip with my man. I wouldn't text anyone really. That's precious time.


Uh-huh.

But since his wife technically isn't present, it's ok for you to interfere with what should be Dude's "precious time" with her?

Starting to get it now???
 
Old 07-05-2015, 02:38 PM
 
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We went on the trip on the 4th (Saturday) the dude called me Friday night. I wouldn't text him while on a trip with my man. I wouldn't text anyone really. That's precious time.
OP:

You have two men in your life who are providing you whatever it is that you need, and one of them is married.

So you would not text your married male friend while on a trip with your man?

Because you state that your time is precious with him and that you would not text anyone really

Really

Yet you are texting a married man.

And you are an interfering third party in their marriage.
 
Old 07-05-2015, 02:39 PM
 
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Uh-huh.

But since his wife technically isn't present, it's ok for you to interfere with what should be Dude's "precious time" with her?

Starting to get it now???

I get it. I do. But, how do I know that he hasn't talked to her already - before he called me? Spent precious time talking to his wife first, and then called his friend. Or vise versa - called me first and spent the night talking to her. I mean people talk on the phone. Your'e not allotted just one person to talk to.

As far as I see it, he probably called his family and talked to his kids and his wife and then called me.

We don't talk on the phone every day. Probably once or twice a week.
 
Old 07-05-2015, 02:43 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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As far as I see it ...
You don't get it. This ^^^ is your problem. You only want to see as far as YOU see.

Well, no wonder you are in this situation. You can rationalize anything!

Good luck, gurl! You'll need it.
 
Old 07-05-2015, 02:43 PM
 
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"Friends" said the women posting in the romantic/relationship sub forum, Lol.

I didn't know it was a romantic forum. I thought it was all relationships, family, friends, and romantic. I didn't know.
 
Old 07-05-2015, 02:44 PM
 
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I get it. I do. But, how do I know that he hasn't talked to her already - before he called me? Spent precious time talking to his wife first, and then called his friend. Or vise versa - called me first and spent the night talking to her. I mean people talk on the phone. You're not allotted just one person to talk to.

As far as I see it, he probably called his family and talked to his kids and his wife and then called me.

We don't talk on the phone every day. Probably once or twice a week.
OP:

Then you need to become friends with his wife.

You only know one side of the story.

There are two sides to every story.
 
Old 07-05-2015, 02:46 PM
 
Location: Earth
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I didn't know it was a romantic forum. I thought it was all relationships, family, friends, and romantic. I didn't know.
Non Romantic relationships go in the "Non Romantic Relationships" forum. Important to familiarize yourself with site categories before posting.
 
Old 07-05-2015, 02:48 PM
 
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I didn't know it was a romantic forum. I thought it was all relationships, family, friends, and romantic. I didn't know.
OP:

Then if your friendship with your married male friend is completely innocent, it should be moved to the non-romantic relationship forum.

That one is on you to decide.
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