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I was confused to much, i have a relation with my officemate, actually he is a big boss of our company, i like him , we go out sometime, eat together having sex.
But i never feel that he like me, i feel he used me only if he need sex, he never call me to ask me if im ok or not he call me only if he need me.
One day he invite me to go out, and i said no coz i feel he used me only, and i ask him if we have a relation or he want me only for sex , and he said yes we have a relation... Then i go again with him, went outside, eat together, having sex..............
After a few days its happen again, he never call me he never ask me if im ok or not. We always see each other in the office but he never talk to me as well, he dont want to know the other person in the office that we have a relationship...
Please somebody help me to find a good answer if he using me only or not.. If he need me only coz of sex or he is busy thats why he dont have a time for me...
Im not happy on this kind of relation i want a real love, a real care, and attention.
I was confused to much, i have a relation with my officemate, actually he is a big boss of our company, i like him , we go out sometime, eat together having sex.
But i never feel that he like me, i feel he used me only if he need sex, he never call me to ask me if im ok or not he call me only if he need me.
One day he invite me to go out, and i said no coz i feel he used me only, and i ask him if we have a relation or he want me only for sex , and he said yes we have a relation... Then i go again with him, went outside, eat together, having sex..............
After a few days its happen again, he never call me he never ask me if im ok or not. We always see each other in the office but he never talk to me as well, he dont want to know the other person in the office that we have a relationship...
Please somebody help me to find a good answer if he using me only or not.. If he need me only coz of sex or he is busy thats why he dont have a time for me...
Im not happy on this kind of relation i want a real love, a real care, and attention.
It doesn't sound like you have a relationship at all. He only goes out with you when he knows there will be sex. That is, okay, a F buddy situation.
I was confused to much, i have a relation with my officemate, actually he is a big boss of our company, i like him , we go out sometime, eat together having sex.
But i never feel that he like me, i feel he used me only if he need sex, he never call me to ask me if im ok or not he call me only if he need me.
One day he invite me to go out, and i said no coz i feel he used me only, and i ask him if we have a relation or he want me only for sex , and he said yes we have a relation... Then i go again with him, went outside, eat together, having sex..............
After a few days its happen again, he never call me he never ask me if im ok or not. We always see each other in the office but he never talk to me as well, he dont want to know the other person in the office that we have a relationship...
Please somebody help me to find a good answer if he using me only or not.. If he need me only coz of sex or he is busy thats why he dont have a time for me...
Im not happy on this kind of relation i want a real love, a real care, and attention.
I was confused to much, i have a relation with my officemate, actually he is a big boss of our company, i like him , we go out sometime, eat together having sex.
But i never feel that he like me, i feel he used me only if he need sex, he never call me to ask me if im ok or not he call me only if he need me.
One day he invite me to go out, and i said no coz i feel he used me only, and i ask him if we have a relation or he want me only for sex , and he said yes we have a relation... Then i go again with him, went outside, eat together, having sex..............
After a few days its happen again, he never call me he never ask me if im ok or not. We always see each other in the office but he never talk to me as well, he dont want to know the other person in the office that we have a relationship...
Please somebody help me to find a good answer if he using me only or not.. If he need me only coz of sex or he is busy thats why he dont have a time for me...
Im not happy on this kind of relation i want a real love, a real care, and attention.
It doesn't sound like you have a relationship at all. He only goes out with you when he knows there will be sex. That is, okay, a F buddy situation.
Not sure what that person's situation is exactly. But it is always recommended not to consider sex early in a relationship if someone is unsure if both are in the same page, sharing the same feelings, etc.
Not sure what that person's situation is exactly. But it is always recommended not to consider sex early in a relationship if someone is unsure if both are in the same page, sharing the same feelings, etc.
i met a guy on the internet 6years ago we met up 3 years ago and had a wild night of fun (sex) 6months back his girlfriend walk out on him ..we got to toghether and had many weekends together...she brought his car back to him and stayed the night at his as he was driving her back the next day ..he said they slept in the same bed but nothing happened...i met him again this weekend and not sure i believe him ....what do u think ?? julie
I have been unoffically seeing this guy for 3 months. I met him through a neighbor friend and we hooked up in some respects the first night we met, although we didn't have sex, we did stay the night together. We exchanged numbers and he has faithfully called me pretty much daily to see what I was up to. This guy however isn't a very feelings oriented guy and I very much am. He is a good person, everyone would say that about him and I see that in him as well. The problem I am dealing with now is what I mean to him. After 3 months of now sleeping together everytime I see him, about 5 days a week, I am starting to question if it is just about the sex. I enjoy the sex as well, but I can do without it also and am starting to feel guilty about it because I fear that our relationship isn't anything more. Should I continue on, end things right now, approach him...?
If you're being intimate with a guy and find you are afraid to have a respectful honest conversation about the meaning of the sex you're having, there might be a problem with that "relationship"
When did sex and touching become expected and talking taboo? Maybe during the 90's when I was happily married and off them market.
Man, I am old. What happened to at least being in a long-term, commited relationship and having the ability to say "I love you"--not to mention even getting married--before having sex? Then this stuff doesn't happen and you don't feel so badly about yourself...
Oh, well. Get off my freshly-seeded lawn, all you younguns that are actually probably older than I am. Ooops.
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