If you're married, do you know how many your SO slept with? (girl, husband)
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I asked, and I am struggling with the answer for almost a yearnow... It took a toll on an otherwise great relationship...If you're not ready to handle the answer, don't ask...
I did come across an interesting article by Huffingtonpost regarding a new study done in conjunction with a couple of Universities and the national marriage project. The study shows that more pre-marital sexual partners leads to unhappier marriages.
I think in my situation personally it was a combination of factors. One, we were pretty young when we got together - college age. Second, I never cared about any other boyfriend's "number" - it was more his specifically I was curious about. Third, because I genuinely had no idea. He was very clearly pursued by a lot of girls/young women, and I was basically curious to know how many of those he had acted on. Fourth, because the incidents I did know about were... well, pretty crazy. Mod cut. I didn't have nearly the same sort of experience before him, and never really longed for it, so I kind of was trying to figure out where his headspace was. So, those were MY reasons.
On the other hand, it obviously didn't matter much in the long run. We've been married a decade now and I have zero complaints in the loyalty department. He seems to have gotten his partying out beforehand, had no other kids/diseases, and basically we're very compatible in the bedroom.
(I'm still a little curious, though, lol. His reply was always "not as many as you think" - which is probably true.)
Last edited by PJSaturn; 07-08-2015 at 01:03 PM..
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Not married, but I assume any woman that is hot enough to get my attention and initiates *%#, hardcore *€>* and asks me to *-)# her &*%& and *&*#& like a &*%&#@ *(&%)- has already been with way more guys than I actually want to know about in terms of numbers.
I don't think my husband or I ever bothered to keep count.
We're a little older than a bunch of you are. When we were young, most people seemed to have had a freer, more accepting attitude about sex. It was fun back then, in the days before HIV. People were polite about it and no one I knew had serious hang ups.
Anyone who was negative about my past experiences, now, would be kicked to the curb pretty fast.
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