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Old 07-12-2015, 06:31 PM
 
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If you are staying over at your gf or bf's house and you hadn't made any plans for the next day, is it ok to leave before they wake up? In this case, you went to sleep at midnight and you have woken up at 9. You hung out quietly for a couple hours, got coffee and got ready. It's 11 AM and they are still sleeping, so is it ok to leave?
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Old 07-12-2015, 06:34 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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If you are staying over at your gf or bf's house and you hadn't made any plans for the next day, is it ok to leave before they wake up? In this case, you went to sleep at midnight and you have woken up at 9. You hung out quietly for a couple hours, got coffee and got ready. It's 11 AM and they are still sleeping, so is it ok to leave?
ehhhhh, I either wait or wake her up. Never just leave while she's asleep.

It's different living together, I typically try to NOT wake her up at 6 in the morning when I leave for work.
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Old 07-12-2015, 06:50 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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I quietly bail whenever I want. Last girlfriend hated every time I slept over, because I was always gone by 3am (running)
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Old 07-12-2015, 07:01 PM
 
Location: Warwick, RI
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No way you leave before she wakes up. It's been quite a while since I had to worry about that, but I would NEVER, repeat NEVER leave without waking her to tell her. Either that or stay until she wakes up.
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Old 07-12-2015, 07:04 PM
 
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ehhhhh, I either wait or wake her up. Never just leave while she's asleep.

It's different living together, I typically try to NOT wake her up at 6 in the morning when I leave for work.
I guess I figure that I did wait 2 hours already. She saw that I was up earlier and she didn't get up. So, is it rude to sleep excessively when you have a guest or it it rude for the guest not to wait till possibly noon or later to even find out what may or may not be going on for the day? I call it a wash and just leave as I don't want to waste half of the day.
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Old 07-12-2015, 07:30 PM
 
Location: a primitive state
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Go in the room, give her a kiss, and tell her you'll see her later.
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Old 07-12-2015, 07:31 PM
 
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I always left when I wanted to or had things to do, I refuse to waste my time waiting for someone to get out of the bed.
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Old 07-12-2015, 09:42 PM
 
Location: Warwick, RI
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I always left when I wanted to or had things to do, I refuse to waste my time waiting for someone to get out of the bed.

And that's fine, but how long does it take to do this?


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Go in the room, give her a kiss, and tell her you'll see her later.
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Old 07-12-2015, 10:33 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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I guess I figure that I did wait 2 hours already. She saw that I was up earlier and she didn't get up. So, is it rude to sleep excessively when you have a guest or it it rude for the guest not to wait till possibly noon or later to even find out what may or may not be going on for the day? I call it a wash and just leave as I don't want to waste half of the day.
A bf/gf isn't exactly a guest. It's not really rude to sleep in, it's something pretty normal. If you're bf/gf you shouldn't be worried about entertaining a guest. She should be able to sleep and be comfortable.

It's not wasting half a day, lay down and just relax with her.

It's not a wash, it's pretty rude to leave without saying goodbye.

I thought you were the one who just had a talk with her about selfish behavior? I think you should be practicing what you preach or she'll get annoyed.
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Old 07-12-2015, 10:37 PM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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I guess I figure that I did wait 2 hours already. She saw that I was up earlier and she didn't get up. So, is it rude to sleep excessively when you have a guest or it it rude for the guest not to wait till possibly noon or later to even find out what may or may not be going on for the day? I call it a wash and just leave as I don't want to waste half of the day.

Guest? I don't have sex with my house guests. lol

Just gently wake her, tell her you're taking off, give'er a kiss on the cheek and get out. Not complicated.
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