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I have no idea why some are having difficulty understanding what I wrote, but what I'm asking is: Suppose you were interested in someone and you ask them why their last relationship didn't work out, and they mention that they killed someone (specifically the partner of an ex) in self-defense, would you continue to pursue them or would you leave them alone and look for someone else?
Let's say it was a situation where it was an ex's new partner and a friend of theirs waiting at your love interest's apartment and they tell you that they got stabbed and the end result was they got killed? Then what?
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One of the people he killed was a guy that his ex was involved with.
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Ok the guy the woman's interested in, his ex-girlfriend got in a relationship with another guy. Him and another guy was waiting at the apartment to attack the guy and stabs him and he says he defended himself which resulted in both of them dead. I hope that makes better sense. Sorry for too many pronouns.
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They happen to be waiting for him and they stabbed him, according to him, and he defended himself and as a resulted, him and his friend, I'm guessing are both dead.
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I have no idea why some are having difficulty understanding what I wrote, but what I'm asking is: Suppose you were interested in someone and you ask them why their last relationship didn't work out, and they mention that they killed someone (specifically the partner of an ex) in self-defense, would you continue to pursue them or would you leave them alone and look for someone else?
the last post made things much more clear. the person that did the killing, can he prove that it was self defense? or was he there to really kill the dead person? if it really was self defense, then no problem, but if he went there specifically to kill someone, but make it look like self defense, then run away and never look back.
I have no idea why some are having difficulty understanding what I wrote, but what I'm asking is: Suppose you were interested in someone and you ask them why their last relationship didn't work out, and they mention that they killed someone (specifically the partner of an ex) in self-defense, would you continue to pursue them or would you leave them alone and look for someone else?
Look for someone else. Seriously, like generally attracts like which means that he was probably no better than they were and how did they all get in this situation in the first place? Was the woman his ex when he killed 2 people? This doesn't really sound like the best class of person to get involved with in the first place. What, some jealous rage that got out of hand. Are you comfortable with someone that in your life that killed two people? Also, if I wanted him in my life, I would have a background check run on him before getting involved.
I don't think I could wrap my head around it, even if it was an accident or pure self-defense. I would probably have to really like the person already. If this was a new relationship, I doubt I would stick around. It would horrify me and preoccupy my thoughts while with the person.
I think the most important thing to look at is the court documents. What was the evidence and what was the ruling?
Don't take some guy's word for it that he killed two people who were lying in wait for him.
Despite of the evidence, a better question is how did he manage to get out and "live a normal life"? if that's what you want to call it. He was a manager in the fast food industry for a while and now he's a janitor. Either way, creeeeeeepy.
Despite of the evidence, a better question is how did he manage to get out and "live a normal life"? if that's what you want to call it. He was a manager in the fast food industry for a while and now he's a janitor. Either way, creeeeeeepy.
Yes. Creepy. Run. RUN for the nearest exit and no looking back. There are plenty more fish in the sea without that kind of drama in their personal baggage.
I have no idea why some are having difficulty understanding what I wrote, but what I'm asking is: Suppose you were interested in someone and you ask them why their last relationship didn't work out, and they mention that they killed someone (specifically the partner of an ex) in self-defense, would you continue to pursue them or would you leave them alone and look for someone else?
Well given that he's not in jail (not sure if he ever did time?) I'd say the courts must have agreed it was self defense as well. I think it would be hard to make a judgement call here with the little bit of info you provided, I'd need to know the details of exactly what happened.
I mean if it was a situation where the guy was walking down the street and was attacked out of nowhere by some thug or crazy person, then I can understand self defense. However it does look suspicious that it was a former partner of his ex, because jealousy always plays a role in that kinda of stuff IMO.
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They happen to be waiting for him and they stabbed him, according to him, and he defended himself and as a resulted, him and his friend, I'm guessing are both dead.
Ok just saw this, how exactly did he defend himself? Was he carrying a gun in his pocket? I mean most people (who aren't looking for trouble) don't expect to have two people waiting to stab them when they get home, so it just sounds odd that he was prepared enough that he killed both of them! Just sounds like he must've been carrying a weapon on him, which would mean he carries one at all times?
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