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Exactly. And women...not picking on you. But YOU are usually the one getting [bleep] over...both literally and figuratively. Pump and dump. Helloooo?
Don't buy into the crap that no man will want you if you don't give it up quick. Only the pigs wont want you. And that is a good thing.
Then you have this:
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Originally Posted by Ascension2012
To be perfectly honest, a young man that brings something to the table, has a line of young beautiful girls ready to give it up first date. If you want to play a prude and hold it off for months at a time, he'll just ignore you and date someone else. Get with the times, ladies.
This is exactly what I have seen women discussing on CD about (so-called) dating. Not having the chance to even develop anything with another.
After a first date, you know someone well enough to discuss previous health histories and contraception use then? So there will be zero chance of unwanted pregnancy, STDs etc - as these certainly do not 'wash off'.
Yeah, I remember being asked if I was on "the Pill".
My body is precious. To ME. And I am not going to allow some stranger inside my body because he wants to go for a test run, or he wants to get his rocks off, or because a certain amount of dates have passed.
I don't get the mindset of some of the men on here that sex is some kind of throwaway activity that shouldn't amount to anything.
Sex is natural, it's not precious, and your body is just another object, sorry... you are nothing special
Quite well, thank you. Went on dates with a few people over the last few months, slept with about half by the second date. With two of them there were real mental and sexual connections, and with one of those the emotional connection blossomed with the sexual one. This one I've just agreed to a level of monogamy with and I'm hopeful for the future. That wouldn't have happened if we remained chaste.
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Originally Posted by In2itive_1
This is exactly what I have seen women discussing on CD about (so-called) dating. Not having the chance to even develop anything with another.
Sex just speeds things up. It doesn't change them. It helps you realize quicker whether the person has the potential to be a partner.
Sex is natural, it's not precious, and your body is just another object, sorry... you are nothing special
Okay. Is this what you'll tell your daughter (s) one day, too?
I think I've mentioned before on CD what a male friend told me years ago. He said that his Great Transformation as a man, particularly how he viewed women, occurred the moment he heard 3 little words for the first time: "it's a girl!".
Okay. Is this what you'll tell your daughter (s) one day, too?
Pretty much...
I'm not naive and think my daughter isnt going to sleep around. Why would I want to prevent her from having pleasure?
Do I want her losing her virginity at 13 or 14? No
Do I want her to bang every boy on the football team? No
Do I want her getting pregnant or getting an STD? No
But why should I pressure her to not have sex? It's not the 1950's anymore. Kids nowadays probably have more sex by 18 than I had before 21, which is saying a lot. But they are also learning life lessons and love lessons sooner than later, which I don't think is a bad thing.
What's sadder than some girl who is in her 30's, only had a handful of partners, never married, relatively inexperienced both socially and sexually for the sole reason of religion or some other wack social pressure which tells her sex outside of marriage is wrong and / or you should be uber selective about who you have sex with...
Sex is natural, it's not precious, and your body is just another object, sorry... you are nothing special
Eating is natural. Taking a sh-t is natural. Letting someone inside my body because he decided it was the right time is not natural. My body is not an object for anyone's use - there are laws against that.
Your mindset is disgusting, and when you're 60 and all alone wondering what happened, your opinion about sex will be your first clue.
Do I want her losing her virginity at 13 or 14? No
Do I want her to bang every boy on the football team? No
Why not? It's perfectly natural.Sex doesn't mean anything, so why shouldn't she start when she's 13 and sleep with every single guy she meets? Why not? Sex is not precious and her body is just another object. That's what you said.
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