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And if you wait, sleep together, and he finds that you're not sexually compatible, will it hurt less after dating a few months than a few weeks?
That has never been a problem. The opposite however has been. I have to add I have never had a man who waited for me end up feeling I wasn't worth waiting for.
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That has never been a problem. The opposite however has been. I have to add I have never had a man who waited for me end up feeling I wasn't worth waiting for.
You've never been sexual incompatible with anyone in your life?
Ok. It has nothing to do with being good, or worth it, just incompatible. Good for you I guess. It seems, well, nevermind.
You've never been sexual incompatible with anyone in your life?
Ok. It has nothing to do with being good, or worth it, just incompatible. Good for you I guess. It seems, well, nevermind.
Of course I've been incompatible with people...but I have always been able to tell whether we're going to be compatible or not in the making out stage. I can't imagine making out with someone over days or even weeks and having no idea still if we're physically as well as mentally compatible. It's not like we're just holding hands until we do the deed. I can tell just by really intense kissing if we're going to be hot together or not.
i just started seeing this wonderful guy a week ago we chatted online for alittle while before we actually met in person.I didnt have sex with him the first night but we both wanted to we were attracted right away. He is a perfect gentlemen opens the car door for me treats me with respect he is fun to be around we laughi just really like him a lot. So my question here is was it wrong to sleep with him on the second date, oh he is 53 i am 45 we are 2 consenting adults. whats your opinion on this?
Bloody hell if you don't know the " rules of engagement " by now lol
Nope not a bad thing at all imo ( not just as I'm a bloke ) if the attraction is there then why not?
Hope things work out for you seem a very nice lady
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Of course I've been incompatible with people...but I have always been able to tell whether we're going to be compatible or not in the making out stage. I can't imagine making out with someone over days or even weeks and having no idea still if we're physically as well as mentally compatible. It's not like we're just holding hands until we do the deed. I can tell just by really intense kissing if we're going to be hot together or not.
Ok. I can tell if someone will be good and passionate in bed, or bad in bed, based on how they kiss. Sure.
Not whether they will be compatible in bed. I have no idea how you would do that from kissing. From talking about sex? Yeah, better chance.
And if you wait, sleep together, and he finds that you're not sexually compatible, will it hurt less after dating a few months than a few weeks?
Why does "he" have to find they're not compatible? Maybe they sleep together and she finds out he's selfish in bed, he's got a little winkie, or he just has no idea what he's doing?
The difference seems to be that if a woman finds there's some issues in bed but she really likes the guy, she'll do everything she can to try and work it out. It appears according to you and some of the men on the board that if he thinks they're "not compatible" he'll just walk away without a second thought.
It's true that if you like/love someone quality of sex shouldn't matter
It would seem even tho men are usually pinned down as the pickier of the 2 women are just as bad if not worse
Now my take on sex with a woman is not say what positions they do or how they actually perform its purely on how they look if I'm totally honest ie if there beautiful enough it's good enough and on how much I actually like the girl,
when you hear men saying " oh there shlt in bed " i think it's just a way to get back at women that have cursed them and don't really mean it as I'm sure most think like me
i feel that's way to soon. I would think you would want to get to know each other better. You may have sex and regret it. Sorry to say, but sometimes all that manners and gentlemen stuff is a front just for the first date. They do it to see how far you will let them go. At least do a few dates and see if that's his true character get to know him.
It's very odd. Not encountered it in over 10 years, and that only went so slow because she had an infant at home and always stressed being away from her daughter.
And it isn't great. It stinks.
Doesn't sound odd to me either. I don't even generally kiss before a 3rd date anyway. Always exceptions of course, but generally, I just don't feel comfortable enough with someone, that quickly.
Right! Why even bother to know each other's names? Just arrive naked to first date. Saves time.
LMAO.
I don't know how I missed this the first time I went through this thread.
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