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Old 07-22-2015, 10:05 AM
 
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Let's say your husband's old college friend is getting married. Your husband is invited to a bachelor party at a strip club. Basically he has to spend money at the club and there are plenty of hot women that dance for money. Would you let your husband go and let him have a blast or would you not let him go? Let's say money
Is tight. If your husband is dedicated to you he would not waste his time in a strip club right?
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Old 07-22-2015, 10:06 AM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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I'm fine with it.
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Old 07-22-2015, 10:08 AM
 
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Assuming the husband is an adult, im not sure why he needs permission. Im not a big fan of strip clubs, but have been to a few for bachelor parties. No reason to be so insecure.
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Old 07-22-2015, 10:09 AM
 
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My husband is an adult. I don't "let" him do anything.

A one time bachelor party? Not an issue.
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Old 07-22-2015, 10:14 AM
 
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Even if you are on a budget with things? You let him waste money on women doing lap dances??? This seems very odd?? I guess it is co exist marriages
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Old 07-22-2015, 10:16 AM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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Moot point... none of my husband's old college friends would have a bachelor party at a strip club.
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Old 07-22-2015, 10:17 AM
 
Location: New Yawk
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Bachelor party? As long as he keeps his hands, feet, and appendages to himself, it doesn't bother me.
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Old 07-22-2015, 10:18 AM
 
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I've taken my husband to a strip club. He's very introverted, so it was horribly uncomfortable for him. I think it's kind of fun. I actually don't find the environment sexy or erotic at all. If anything, it's cheesy and kind of surreal.

If it bothers you to have your spouse go to a strip club, you have the right to express those feelings, though. If it's going to cause financial and emotional strife, it's important to discuss the issue.

How does your husband feel about it? Is he adamant that he wants to go? Or is he ambivalent about it?
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Old 07-22-2015, 10:18 AM
 
Location: New Yawk
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Even if you are on a budget with things? You let him waste money on women doing lap dances??? This seems very odd?? I guess it is co exist marriages
Not every dude there is buying lap dances and/or stuffing money into g-strings.
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Old 07-22-2015, 10:19 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Yes - I would let him go. And I've been to a few strip clubs before. Not all the women are hot.
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