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Old 07-23-2015, 08:35 AM
 
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You are investing a lot of time and energy in a guy who not only has a girlfriend, but with whom you've never even spoken. Get a grip.
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Old 07-23-2015, 08:42 AM
 
Location: Bloomington IN
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Maybe he was a little interested and now he's not. Pretty simple really.
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Old 07-23-2015, 08:59 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Nothing is happening. He looked at you a few times.
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Old 07-23-2015, 09:04 AM
 
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This man is taken. Has a girlfriend. Is in a relationship. You should be heading in the opposite direction, not getting your hopes up. Stay away from him and look to a guy who's single and available. It's all about showing respect to other people's relationships and even more, self-respect.
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Old 07-23-2015, 10:29 AM
 
Location: NYC
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And the most shocking thing about this story is it all happened in the span of 5 minutes in the OP's head.
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Old 07-23-2015, 01:55 PM
 
Location: Earth
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Nothing is happening. He looked at you a few times.
Agreed. Looks and even flirting don't have to mean anything. If this man has not asked you out, attempted to start any conversation with you, and you haven't even hung out, then yeah. There's nothing to analyze.

I suppose if you're really impatient, then you could ask him out and see what his response is. I don't advise that since he's already taken, but if you're ok with openly making moves on another woman's SO, then go for it.
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Old 07-23-2015, 03:32 PM
 
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Woman seems to be starved from getting something so is making this to be something that is not.it is hard to get yourself together when you start projecting this things in your head. I can only give you one advice, find some distraction. Or thing about him as something you won't get, Or can't get.
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Old 07-23-2015, 04:36 PM
 
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Attention is like crack to some women. I love how she phrases everything as though she just happened to notice this guy looking at her, but I'd bet money she made sure to be available to be looked at by this particular guy.

The coy 'chase me' foolishness doesn't seem to be working, he hasn't approached yet, and here she is.

Funny thing is if he'd approached from the start, she'd have still liked him, but would've probably shut him out quickly and complained about him if he were persistent.
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Old 07-23-2015, 06:08 PM
 
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OP when a guy is genuinely interested and is available, he will ask you out. I've been in your shoes, and wanted to believe some guy I really liked was into me, and interpreted his every glance and word according to what I wanted it to mean.

Friendliness and flirtatiousness don't mean squat if they don't ask you out......doesn't matter what signals they're giving you. Heck it doesn't matter if they strip naked in the middle of the hallway for that matter. If they don't ask you out then there is a reason for it
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Old 07-23-2015, 06:50 PM
 
Location: South Wales, United Kingdom
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Please stay away from this guy, as he already has a girlfriend. Maybe even join a different gym, as do you really want to see him there, together with his girlfriend? I'm sorry to say this but he is not going to leave her for someone he hardly knows.

On the plus side, if he has been giving you the eye, you sound like you are an attractive lady. There will be other, decent, single chaps (without a roving eye), who will be attracted to you also. Please keep your dignity and self-respect and wait for one of them.
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