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Old 07-28-2015, 06:15 PM
 
Location: The Great West
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Does it really matter?
Super distant cousins aren't really related to each other...but the creepy part is that it seems they were raised thinking of each other as cousins. So regardless of blood relation, it is still weird.
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Old 07-28-2015, 06:18 PM
 
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Super distant cousins aren't really related to each other...but the creepy part is that it seems they were raised thinking of each other as cousins. So regardless of blood relation, it is still weird.
uve never heard of someone who dated or married his/her cousin?
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Old 07-28-2015, 06:48 PM
 
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Super distant cousins aren't really related to each other...but the creepy part is that it seems they were raised thinking of each other as cousins. So regardless of blood relation, it is still weird.
Yea but it is awkward as hell!
I know this girl who parents are first cousins.
That girl was crazy especially when she attacked me.
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Old 07-28-2015, 07:07 PM
 
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O.o ...Try finding someone else, focusing on a hobby, focusing on your career and keep things casual between you and your cousin. Hopefully, the right girl will come around.
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Old 07-28-2015, 07:56 PM
 
Location: New Yawk
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I had some smokin' hot cousins, but oddly, the idea of [bleep] crossed my mind. Although, I suppose it would take the guesswork out which family you spend Thanksgiving with

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Old 07-28-2015, 08:07 PM
 
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uve never heard of someone who dated or married his/her cousin?
Are you American? It really just isn't common in the US and Europe.
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Old 08-04-2015, 07:59 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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...she rejected me and she said that she can't make it happen and that she was very sorry she gave me wrong signs
See, you already know the answer. ^^

Stop communicating with her and go out and make real friends who live near you and aren't related to you.
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Old 08-04-2015, 08:09 AM
 
Location: City Data Land
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See, you already know the answer. ^^

Stop communicating with her and go out and make real friends who live near you and aren't related to you.
You know, I dated a guy once who was shy, introverted, and really sweet. I liked him a lot and appreciated the fact that he took things really slow, unlike most guys. He was kind, courteous, and quiet. But he took things too slow. I was ready to have sex after a couple of months and couldn't figure out why he didn't seem into me. I thought I was reasonably attractive, well groomed, had a job, a woman most guys would like to date. So, after one clumsy unsatisfying encounter I suspected he was gay and we finally had a heart-to-heart. I just wanted to know what was going on. If he wasn't into me, fine; I'd move on to someone else who was.

After a lot of verbal poking and prodding he finally admitted he was in love with his female cousin and had been for years! Not just attracted; in love. I was shocked. I had never dealt with this situation before. It would have been so much easier if he were gay; I could completely understand that. But how do you compete with sexual attraction to a relative??? We went out to eat one more time; kind of a goodbye lunch, and I never heard from him again. I wonder if he ever hooked up with her
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