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I could see how the original post came off. I do like the guy, it's something on my side, too. (though I do think he's looking for sex, and I think it was too soon for this attempt) I don't know him well enough to even be able to tell if I'm his type. Insecurity on my part adds to this scenario. (I tried to rep you again but couldn't)
If you like him, then why not suggest going to a theater instead? If he's only after sex, then he'll probably nix that idea.
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The less time people spend outside the bedroom doing things they enjoy; the more the build up to potential passion in the bedroom. At least in my experience anyway... This guy could be noble and genuinely want to spend time in his space with you. At least give him the benefit of the doubt; but listen to your gut.
Not every guy who invites a lady over is looking just for sex. Just like, not every woman who goes out with a man is looking for a free meal.
Oh and less texting and more actual talking. I know it's 2015, but limit texts to quick little notes and confirmations of getting together.
The less time people spend outside the bedroom doing things they enjoy; the more the build up to potential passion in the bedroom. At least in my experience anyway... This guy could be noble and genuinely want to spend time in his space with you. At least give him the benefit of the doubt; but listen to your gut.
Not every guy who invites a lady over is looking just for sex. Just like, not every woman who goes out with a man is looking for a free meal.
Oh and less texting and more actual talking. I know it's 2015, but limit texts to quick little notes and confirmations of getting together.
Funny you should say this. Yesterday was when we had the talk about me not coming over just yet. And today, he's gone. Honestly, I felt in my gut from the first date I wasn't his type so there's the update. So all you men (mostly if I remember right) who thought I was being a jerk assuming he just wanted sex, turns out it was a correct assumption. Next
I think you did the right thing, you were not comfortable being in his home alone. I don't blame you, you all have only gone out on 2 dates and don't know each other very well. Good call.
I think you did the right thing, you were not comfortable being in his home alone. I don't blame you, you all have only gone out on 2 dates and don't know each other very well. Good call.
Yes it turned out to be right, I suggested a movie (in a public place), he agreed and is no where to be found today (whereas normally he's blowing me up)
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You could have been raped, drugged or who knows what. I think you did the right thing by following your instincts. Too many crazies out there these days.
Very smart, op. What came to mind, the last time I posted here, were a couple of true stories about women going over to a guys' home or inviting the guys' over to their homes, and they were raped. Even when one of the women denied sex, the guy she was seeing still took advantage of her. Some guys will take it even after you say no.
I remember a couple of years ago how my sleaze ball ex invited me over to his house to "watch a movie." He touched many girls inappropriately and forced them and also me into uncomfortable situations. If I would have gone over to his house, my life would have basically been destroyed.
Well, that's a new one. I wouldn't assume that the guy wanted to have sex....I would assume that he was too cheap to take me to a movie theater. (It's not 1958 anymore, it's not 1958 anymore....)
Yes I insisted on one. If a man's truly interested in you, he will be happy to join you at one It must have been the movie selection, that's it
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It must have been the movie selection, that's it
