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Old 07-29-2015, 07:37 AM
 
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I would have been pissed that you lied to me, not that you slept with another dude while we were broken up... as I would have been getting laid left and right during that time anyway
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Old 07-29-2015, 07:41 AM
 
Location: My House
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I would have been pissed that you lied to me, not that you slept with another dude while we were broken up... as I would have been getting laid left and right during that time anyway
Hahaha! Yeah. I was actually thinking her BF might've had this reaction.
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Old 07-29-2015, 07:45 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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You were on a break.

The lying wasn't cool, though.
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Old 07-29-2015, 07:48 AM
 
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What do you guys think? Personally, If I got back with my ex and found out he had slept with someone else I would leave him there and then. But it seems like with this guy no matter what I do, he always wants to be with me.
You obviously don't respect him, so why are you even still there? This is more your problem than his. *smh*
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Old 07-29-2015, 07:55 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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You obviously don't respect him, so why are you even still there? This is more your problem than his. *smh*
I agree.

Op, it's almost like you're disappointed that he didn't make a huge scene about it.
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Old 07-29-2015, 09:23 AM
 
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Having sex while you were broken up should not be an issue for either of you, as you were not together during that time.

I am surprised he wants to marry someone who repeatedly lied to him, though.

Your question is very odd.
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Old 07-29-2015, 10:37 AM
 
Location: Jupiter
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Some women just thrive on having drama. You obviously have no respect towards this man why are you still with him?
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Old 07-29-2015, 10:47 AM
 
Location: Virginia
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Ok so.. My ex and I broke up for about 4 months.
When we got back together, he had asked me if I had sex with anyone else and I lied every time he bought the subject up. Eventually I couldnt keep it in and I told him that I did have sex with someone else. Any who, this guy showed a very interesting response, he did not talk but just looked away and completely just shut it out.
The next day he decided to argue with me over it and he still stuck with me :| we have been dating for three years now and this guy wants to marry me.
I just don't understand this at all. I know the past is still haunting him but he never left me and considered making me his wife and still is..

What do you guys think? Personally, If I got back with my ex and found out he had slept with someone else I would leave him there and then. But it seems like with this guy no matter what I do, he always wants to be with me.
He is a better man than I am, that is for sure.
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Old 07-29-2015, 11:01 AM
 
Location: NC
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You broke up, but he probably slept with someone else too.
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Old 07-29-2015, 11:11 AM
 
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You broke up, but he probably slept with someone else too.
and this is based on...?
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