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Originally Posted by Adhom
I think a good litmus test on whether a relationship is built on solid foundations is gauge how often you spend time thinking "I'd rather be doing something else" when spending time with her. You may think you are are being completely rational in trying to achieve both quality time with her and achieving personal goals but really what I'm hearing is your feelings for this woman has already plateaued.
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In my OP, I state that I really like her, in fact, I love her. So how are you coming to the conclusion that my feelings have plateaued?
I have goals that I'd like to achieve for my own personal and professional development. I believe that most ambitious people do. I feel that these have taken a back seat over the past several months as a result of a blossoming romantic relationship. I'm trying to find a middle ground so that I can work on both is all.