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The next time he comes to Mommy complaining about all the reason he shouldn't have gotten married, tell him to take it up with his wife. That's for him and his wife to deal with.
He's a newlywed that has to have intercourse 3-4x a day. His wife can't keep up and he gets very angry and difficult to deal with. His behavior is so embarrassing. How can I get him in to counseling again and keep him going? I'm afraid this is going to ruin him.
In healthy relationships, there most certainly are boundaries!!!
It is apparent that you would benefit from therapy also.
You said in your OP that his behavior is embarrassing. Only when many people made the obvious suggestion that YOU are part of the problem did you freak out and start insulting people.
Before this thread is locked, I am going to strongly encourage you to get counseling and learn how to enforce those emotional boundaries.
You don't know me from Adam. You haven't a clue about anything. Stop being so judgmental. Ever heard of giving someone the benefit of the doubt? Have you ever? No need to reply.
These people have beat me up so bad. I'm almost speechless, I'm sending you a hug, thanks again.
It is because of your attacks, the fact this this is so outlandish and your failure to understand boundaries. That is why you are being taken to task. The lack of self realization on your part further negates any point you may try to make.
You have every right to spend your $ buying whatever you'd like.
Sorry these people are telling what you need to hear instead of what you want to hear. Maybe you should think about that instead of lashing out. That would require maturity.
It is because of your attacks, the fact this this is so outlandish and your failure to understand boundaries. That is why you are being taken to task. The lack of self realization on your part further negates any point you may try to make.
Do you see what's going on around you? I can't afford to not provide advice. When my work is done, I'll have peace of mind knowing I did all that I could do.
He does very little around the house, trust and believe me! I've told him about being so insensitive but he has said to me before that "if she doesn't take care of me, somebody else will be glad to". They recently moved with us because we are going to transition across country next year. She does go to the grocery several times a week and my husband and I do the cooking and we take turns cleaning up after dinner. There are 5 school age children in the home and my son thinks that all he has to do is deposit his check in the bank. He leaves my husband and I shaking our heads a lot. It took my son a long time to grow up, he's still learning. I'm just trying to be a positive roll model for my children. He's been in therapy before because he was just doing it to whomever would give it to him. I believe a lot of his anger is the feeling that he may not be able to have any children of his own. That's a whole different story.
So, what are they going to do when you and your husband move across country, are they moving also?
You don't know me from Adam. You haven't a clue about anything. Stop being so judgmental. Ever heard of giving someone the benefit of the doubt? Have you ever? No need to reply.
How many people have to tell you the truth before you accept accountability for your role in this mess?
The majority of responders here, and they are all very different types of people, have been telling you something important that you just don't want to admit.
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My son is a sex addict
My son is a sex addict
