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I ruined his last night? lol are you serious?! he practically ruined my whole vacation over petty things such as me not spraying his back enough with sun tan spray. He blowing up because I said the meat was uncooked.
If I'm over 60 I still would have time left to find another man. Btw, it's not about finding another man it's about me being with a man who respects me and other people as well. Not sure how you take being treated but for me no matter what age a person is, he/she doesn't have to accepted being treated other than good in a relationship.
No real reason why I put up with sweeping it under the rug for so long. Most of the time it was to keep the peace. I'm not saying he's a bad guy. I'm taken aback by his actions in JA and not sure if I want to go forward with this relationship or call it quits.
Three years is a long investment. If you're over 30, you probably don't have any time left to find another man. Call him up and hope he forgives you for ruining the last night of his vacation.
What a ridiculous thing to write.
OP, if you think there is anything in the relationship worth salvaging, then you need to talk to him.
No real reason why I put up with sweeping it under the rug for so long. Most of the time it was to keep the peace. I'm not saying he's a bad guy. I'm taken aback by his actions in JA and not sure if I want to go forward with this relationship or call it quits.
Call it quits and move on. You could easily have a new guy within a month.
I'm just being honest. The OP sounds like she's dangerously close to losing her man. That's probably not a smart risk at her age.
If she were 80, it still wouldn't be worth hanging around this guy. Sounds like you identify with him quite a bit.
OP - if you were to ever marry this guy, he would shortly be treating you like he did those people on vacation. Sounds like he is pretty much almost there.
I've told him about his behavior and how I felt about it. I'm always communicating to him about how I feel but, he never receives it well saying he doesn't like drama or negative talking. Most of the time it's swept under the rug as far as he's concerned but for me it's unresolved.
It is not drama nor negative talking. Follow your thoughts, you know but you don't want to admit it. Don't ruin your entire life with a person like that. Healthy relationship listen each other and solves what ever is on the mind.
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?!!?? this is a joke - right?
