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Originally Posted by natiam
Telling another woman she is attractive while in a relationship is disrespectful to me, and I'm quite positive many other women here would agree. You barely know what my relationship with him is like and yet you're so set on all of these assumptions, how funny. I've already stated in the OP that it may seem silly of me to get jealous over something like this, but I can't help the way I feel. I don't know why there's such a stigma with jealousy - a little is fine in a relationship, it only shows the other person you care about them. It's only a problem when people do crazy things over it. I made a thread on the internet to vent and I'm now a "jealous, possessive, needy, and clingy" person, as you've so eloquently stated. Give me a break.
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Actually you are jealous, possessive, needy and clingy the way you presented yourself in your original poster and Mr. CSD absolutely agreed with that when I read him your original post last eve while he and I were talking on the phone.
Telling another woman while being in a relationship is simply that telling another woman she is attractive, it is not being disrespectful and I'm quite positive many other women here would agree.
You presented your relationship in your original post and my "assumptions" can only go by what is read in the words you write. If you want someone to think differently about you and your relationship then present yourself with your own words differently.
Being jealous is a silly waste of time and one who is mature and secure in their relationships and trust their partners do not waste time being silly with jealously - a "little" is not fine in a relationship, it only shows the other person you don't trust them. It is always a problem whether people do crazy things or not over it.
You made a thread on the internet to present your boyfriend as disrespectful because he liked a couple of photos on of all things "the internet" and facebook to boot and now you are upset that someone told you something you did not want to hear. Now not only is your boyfriend disrespectful, anyone who disagrees with you is disrespectful as well even though they "can't help how they feel". Give me a break.......