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Old 08-07-2015, 05:00 PM
 
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Its been 2 weeks since I initiated no contact with my ex although she stated she still wants to hang out and be close friends. I don't know if that was an honest mention or her trying to shield my feelings in the moment during the break up. I feel emotionally stable enough to give her an answer or should I just keep being silent and let her be forgotten? I mean it would be stupid if I did right? We go to the same college , her friends are in all of my classes and she is in some of mine as well. Fall semester is going to roll around in a week or 2 so I might bump into her more than a few times a week. I've met her parents, and closest friends in all and we didn't leave on a bad note just a confusing one.

Overall I'm feeling better, I go to the gym Monday-Thursday and keep myself busy all day to avoid thinking about her, but talking to her may set me back. Is it worth it just to get closure?
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Old 08-07-2015, 05:07 PM
 
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No. Do not contact.
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Old 08-07-2015, 05:12 PM
 
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No. Don't waste your time. You've given yourself "closure" by going NC. Stick to it. You don't need her crap.
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Old 08-07-2015, 05:13 PM
 
Location: Bloomington IN
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No--don't contact. Chances are you will run into her on campus. Say "hi," be pleasant and let it be the end of it.
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Old 08-07-2015, 05:43 PM
 
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You had a reason for going NC. Why flip on that 2 weeks later?
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Old 08-07-2015, 05:49 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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Overall I'm feeling better, I go to the gym Monday-Thursday and keep myself busy all day to avoid thinking about her, but talking to her may set me back. Is it worth it just to get closure?
You know the answer.

[not worth it]
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Old 08-07-2015, 06:13 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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No no no no no no no no no no no.

No contact.

If you see her at school, great. Say hi, and keep going.
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Old 08-07-2015, 07:06 PM
 
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*sigh* yea ill keep pushing forward its getting hard. I almost cracked today when I noticed she was updating pictures and I know her she only does that to either get attention or because shes moody, she knows I get the notifications my phone rings as well.
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Old 08-07-2015, 07:18 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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*sigh* yea ill keep pushing forward its getting hard. I almost cracked today when I noticed she was updating pictures and I know her she only does that to either get attention or because shes moody, she knows I get the notifications my phone rings as well.
NO CONTACT means blocking, too.

You should not be seeing any of her pix on social media. Unfriend, block, etc.

NO CONTACT
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Old 08-07-2015, 07:32 PM
 
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Him asking about breaking radio silence means he's gonna break radio silence.

I'd tell you not to do it, but there's no point.
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