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Like everyday I'm in love with a new guy,I have always had difficulty being faithful when I was in a relationship - honestly I don't think that it's because I don't love the guy,it's just they go away or something I get bored and talk to guys ,I'm really a romanticist.
Does anyone know how to fix this as I really want to be in a committed relationship,I really want to develop a deep relationship rather than all this superficial non stop talking with boys all the time.
Again im not in relationship atm but I still will fall for one boy one day,then another the next.
Like everyday I'm in love with a new guy,I have always had difficulty being faithful when I was in a relationship - honestly I don't think that it's because I don't love the guy,it's just they go away or something I get bored and talk to guys ,I'm really a romanticist.
Does anyone know how to fix this as I really want to be in a committed relationship,I really want to develop a deep relationship rather than all this superficial non stop talking with boys all the time.
Again im not in relationship atm but I still will fall for one boy one day,then another the next.
First recognize that what you're feeling isn't love.
First of all, if you think you are in love with a new guy every day, or every week, or even every month, you do not know what love is. If you recognize your youthful infatuations for what they are, that should help you to put things in the proper perspective.
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Like everyday I'm in love with a new guy,I have always had difficulty being faithful when I was in a relationship - honestly I don't think that it's because I don't love the guy,it's just they go away or something I get bored and talk to guys ,I'm really a romanticist.
Does anyone know how to fix this as I really want to be in a committed relationship,I really want to develop a deep relationship rather than all this superficial non stop talking with boys all the time.
Again im not in relationship atm but I still will fall for one boy one day,then another the next.
Are you deeply insecure? I ask because you say they go away and you feel lonely or bored.
Something is making you feel like you NEED the attention.
I think you're right before I would watch films,study history etc but now I'm going through little crises in my life and feel I constantly need some knight in shining armour all the time.
I don't think I need attention or validation so much as I have very good self esteem.
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Originally Posted by MMorena
Are you deeply insecure? I ask because you say they go away and you feel lonely or bored.
Something is making you feel like you NEED the attention.
I think you're right before I would watch films,study history etc but now I'm going through little crises in my life and feel I constantly need some knight in shining armour all the time.
I don't think I need attention or validation so much as I have very good self esteem.
Just make it clear to the guys that you are not interested in an exclusive relationship.
PS: You're not in love
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