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Old 08-14-2015, 11:42 AM
 
Location: southern california
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Felt same when I was 20 as I do now
Get your paws off my wallet
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Old 08-14-2015, 11:59 AM
 
Location: New Yawk
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Felt same when I was 20 as I do now
Get your paws off my wallet
What if it's not your wallet she's after?
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Old 08-14-2015, 02:35 PM
 
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I think you missed the point there gangster.



Better get used to being miserable then.

It's way easier to change yourself than the way society works. You've been on this forum a long time and nothing seems to sink in. "Poor me."

As for your edit, You just need to get out your comfort zone and do things that may portray you a creeper, nerd, or whatever label you fear. I went on probably 50 first dates before I finally had one interested in trying again. I wouldn't say any of them were a waste of time though. It was really hard for me to be assertive and talk to women like they're my buddies. Once I got to that point things smoothed out. Took a few years for sure.
so knowing how to approach and talking to women, initiating/escalating with them, was not always natural common sense for you? it seems that way for the vast majority of guys
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Old 08-14-2015, 05:56 PM
 
Location: Vail, CO
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so knowing how to approach and talking to women, initiating/escalating with them, was not always natural common sense for you? it seems that way for the vast majority of guys
Nah, never really dated till I was 27.
Never had sex while I was sober before that age, usually drunken 1 night stands with women that I knew from snowboarding (lifties, servers, bartenders or ski bum chicks at my local resort.) sometimes I even managed to screw that up. Lol
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Old 08-14-2015, 10:58 PM
 
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Nah, never really dated till I was 27.
Never had sex while I was sober before that age, usually drunken 1 night stands with women that I knew from snowboarding (lifties, servers, bartenders or ski bum chicks at my local resort.) sometimes I even managed to screw that up. Lol
so it was not common sense for you, it was painful trial and error? that's what it sounds like you are saying, and women still think men have it easier, which annoys and bothers me
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Old 08-14-2015, 11:00 PM
 
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so it was not common sense for you, it was painful trial and error? that's what it sounds like you are saying, and women still think men have it easier, which annoys and bothers me

lol @ men have it easier


I have two sisters - 1 a little more attractive than me, 1 a little less attractive than me. Both had more dating options at 18 than me, you and every male on this forum will have in their entire life combined
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Old 08-15-2015, 11:05 AM
 
Location: Gotham
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I'll let you know if it ever happens.
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Old 08-15-2015, 06:50 PM
 
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lol @ men have it easier


I have two sisters - 1 a little more attractive than me, 1 a little less attractive than me. Both had more dating options at 18 than me, you and every male on this forum will have in their entire life combined
Whenever you hear of a person who is 25+ years of age and still a virgin, never had a relationship, it's pretty much always men instead of women, so how exactly do men have it better, easier in that regard?
people that disagree with this video are delusional:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=91SlnIVDFso
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Old 08-15-2015, 08:49 PM
 
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but apparently there are a lot of adult male virgins in Japan:http://www.nydailynews.com/life-styl...icle-1.2251659
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