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Old 08-13-2015, 11:04 PM
 
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Is it shady if a person you are dating and considering entering a relationship with (though possibly they have other ideas) won't accept your facebook friend request. He has stated facebook is too much drama.
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Old 08-13-2015, 11:06 PM
 
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Probably just wants to keep what he has instead of introducing it to all his monkey friends and how they act on SM

I would just ask what he means by "drama"


I have guidelines for my own SM where I won't add anyone who I do not consider family.
I am not interested in massing everyone I meet or know in one go to spot...he could have something similar

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Old 08-13-2015, 11:15 PM
 
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I got nothing to hide in social media.
I am same people except for I am little more sexual on the sex related sites m
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Old 08-13-2015, 11:49 PM
 
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Is it shady if a person you are dating and considering entering a relationship with (though possibly they have other ideas) won't accept your facebook friend request. He has stated facebook is too much drama.
I don't have a FB account but I'm actually reluctant to add people I'm dating to any of my Internet social spheres (including basic chat programs). It's just better to avoid the inevitable blocking/deleting I'll have to do in 2 or 3 weeks.
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Old 08-14-2015, 04:52 AM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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Is it shady if a person you are dating and considering entering a relationship with (though possibly they have other ideas) won't accept your facebook friend request. He has stated facebook is too much drama.

Nope. It is smart.

I only am Facebook friends with family and close friends. No way I would add someone I am dating... if I were dating.
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Old 08-14-2015, 05:11 AM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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Is it shady if a person you are dating and considering entering a relationship with (though possibly they have other ideas) won't accept your facebook friend request. He has stated facebook is too much drama.
No. I want the chance to explain my wild lifestyle to her in person before she sees it on my page. Dude is being smart.
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Old 08-14-2015, 05:17 AM
 
Location: a primitive state
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If he doesn't do facebook, he doesn't do facebook. If you're honest, you're probably the one who's being nosy. Sounds shady.
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Old 08-14-2015, 05:30 AM
 
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It depends on how involved you two are. If it's just casual dating then, he shouldn't add you if he doesn' want to. Now, if it was an actual committed relationship, I would say he should. But, it doesn't sound like that's the case here.
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Old 08-14-2015, 05:31 AM
 
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How many dates have you been on so far? I would not automatically add someone to my facebook who I was dating, unless it turned into a serious relationship. However, I also do not have very many people on my facebook either.
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Old 08-14-2015, 05:51 AM
 
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Is it shady if a person you are dating and considering entering a relationship with (though possibly they have other ideas) won't accept your facebook friend request. He has stated facebook is too much drama.
You answered your own question. You said they possibly have other ideas. YOU are the one considering the relationship. He said Facebook is too much drama.

How much clearer can he be?
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