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Old 08-16-2015, 01:48 AM
 
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Why are you even concerned about your EX.

He's an EX for a reason.

Get over the guy already.
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Old 08-16-2015, 04:54 AM
 
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No, not all guys are like your ex.

Your ex was very insecure and very likely has borderline personality disorder (a big NO-NO for you!).

Thank your lucky stars you are no longer involved with him.
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Old 08-16-2015, 06:34 AM
 
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It doesn't matter if "guys act like this." All that matters is that your ex did, and that's why he's an ex.
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Old 08-16-2015, 06:49 AM
 
Location: SacTown
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No just your exbf. Most guys don't act that stupid only the weak and desperate.
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Old 08-16-2015, 06:53 AM
 
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He sounds like a dweeb.
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Old 08-16-2015, 07:08 AM
 
Location: Central IL
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First of all, he's your EX - stop worrying about HIM, what HIS problems are, or why HE broke it off. Move on - and not necessarily to another guy.

Second - he's a classic narcissist - trying to build himself up by spending a lot and using you to bolster his self-esteem. Let him sap the energy out of someone else.

Don't you have better things to do, like live your own life? Your life should not center around a guy but around your own goals.
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Old 08-16-2015, 11:30 AM
 
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As opposed to all gals...

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some guys never grow up, just a fact of life.
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Old 08-16-2015, 11:34 AM
 
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You see guys can't be insecure and sensitive after all -- even though seemingly every single woman on this planet is herself burdened with such issues. How about women trying to be faultlessly secure and confident before judging men for not being this way.

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No, not all guys are like your ex.

Your ex was very insecure and very likely has borderline personality disorder (a big NO-NO for you!).

Thank your lucky stars you are no longer involved with him.
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Old 08-16-2015, 11:35 AM
 
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Not all guys, just the ones you choose. Sounds like you got swept up in the flattery and attention without really getting to know him.

Make better choices next time and you'll see that 'all guys' are not like this.
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Old 08-16-2015, 04:14 PM
 
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You see guys can't be insecure and sensitive after all -- even though seemingly every single woman on this planet is herself burdened with such issues. How about women trying to be faultlessly secure and confident before judging men for not being this way.
You haven't been reading. It's TOTALLY OKAY for men to be faulted or insecure, it's just that they should go see a therapist.
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