Sister in Law is controlling our lives I have been told to get an attorney how do I go about this (married, woman)

[shyshy]

I am at the end of my rope no lie my husband and I have been married a year this is his oldest sister who is his Power of Attorney this woman is something else she has to control everything do not talk about the money side which she still won t s to control.

I am being told she is really treating us wrong and something should be done example we have a checking account which she has money that comes out his main check she writes checks for bills he has in his name there is just to much I am embarssed to be saying this.

My husband is very quite laidback been real sheltered and babied I know this and its stressing me out I saty worried and I feel depressed we do not have our own health insurance together he has his me mine or dental I need dental insurance bad so how do I go about getting an attorney and how do I do it without her knowing.


I did an online bank account and I see things and by the way after those few bills she pays for him where is that money going She took the check book back when his account got overdrawn last year started writing checks again she has me getting money orders for my few bills I have again I cannot take this to much.

[rego00123]

Why does she have the power of attorney?

This is the wrong forum to ask for legal advice btw.

[BirdieBelle]

WHY does your husband, who I assume is a grown man, have his sister paying his bills and doing stuff he should be doing???

Why did he give her power of attorney over HIS life???

[cheryjohns]

Your post is difficult to understand without punctuation. I am not clear as to what is even the problem.

[Rowan123]

Why does the sister have a POA?

Why can't you get your own dental insurance? The fact that his sister has a POA for your husband does not mean you can't get dental insurance.

[oh-eve]

Punctuation!!

[oh-eve]

Did you marry a mentally incapable person or why does his sister have POA over him??

Did you know that when you married him??

[TabulaRasa]

Is your husband disabled/mentally incompetent?

[Muffy1]

I don't understand why your sister in law has POA. Are you sure that she isn't just primary or joint on a checking account?

[CrushandnotbeCrushed]

'Why' and 'What' for so many questions. Why does his sister have POA? What is wrong with your husband that he has to have his sister as his POA? Why is she controlling your married lives? What is written on the form stating what she can and cannot do? When did this POA happen?