Why Am I Upset That He's Dating Another Girl When I Didn't Want Him In The First Place? (girls, personality)
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
Because on a subconscious level, you do not want him to be happy.
Really? Now I think that's a bit extreme. Obviously I'm not thrilled he's dating her, but, there's nothing I can do (or will try to do) and I'm moving on. Unfortunately, this is just my process for releasing him from my system.
I guess looking back he really was into me. For nearly a year he tried, and tried, and tried to get to know me. To talk, to engage. The stares, the smiles. The flushing red and constant preening. Signs of jealousy when I would talk to other guys. The stuttering when he would try to talk to me. The staring around my hair and face. The disappointing looks when I wouldn't talk to him. The candy....
But I kept him at a distance. Always. Gave nothing.
He is a little younger than me and we are not the same race. I admit I discriminated a bit. Thought he was a bit too different for us to ever have anything in common.
Then she came along. No one ever thought he would date her, but oh they're dating. Put it on his Facebook. When I discovered I was pissed...Why?
I guess I admit I do feel for him a little (feelings started to come a couple of months ago when I began to learn more about him). Oh, I don't know. I'm confused. Why do I care?
The weekend he started dating her he would still stare at me intensely. Could see him from my peripheral. Maybe he never really even liked me?
I won't bother him. He's got a girlfriend.
Perhaps my insecurities got the better of me. Him and the girlfriend are the same race, age, and just overall have much more in common.
Anybody ever been in this situation? How did you get over the person? Especially when you had such a strong chemistry between you?
lol, see how easy that was? I do understand the feeling. I was upset when I found out that a guy I dated had gotten married. I even made a thread about it. Had I really given him any thought prior to finding out that he had gotten married? No, I hadn't. I also never really liked when my former guy friends had girlfriends even though I had no romantic interest in them myself.
lol, I just have to keep working at it but it will get easier in time.
If you want more love in the world and less war, don't posses the personality traits the sociopaths that start wars have.
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.
Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.