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Old 08-28-2015, 06:12 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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I haven't had sex with a woman that I knew was married or in a committed relationship.

One time I was out with my buddies and I was trying to throw some game at a woman and giving her Chow's Mack Daddy routine.

She was telling me she was married all the while twirling her hair and giving me the "eyes"... that was the only time that I knowingly was trying to snag a married woman.

Nothing happened and to this day I feel like a creep about it.

Course I was only 22 and had a little too much liquid courage in me... so I sort of give myself a break or a pass if you will.
Lol, easy $$.

I've had two chances this year to have sex with two gorgeous women who were in serious relationships, but I just couldn't do it, man (one had kids, another was going out with a 6'7" meathead). If they told me they just broke up with their man that day, I would have took their word for it and dove in, I just have too many options available to even seriously think about going down that drama filled road. I also, have my moral compass that's stuck.

I actually, find the whole thing disheartening to know these women (probably a lot of women) view their relationships as nothing more than dispensable.
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Old 08-28-2015, 06:20 PM
 
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I did once,the gf was in the next room,not my fault they guy pounced on me then later we ended up having sex,I actually just forgot about the gf,I don't think she ever found out.

But now I don't want the karma of hurting anybody.
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Old 08-28-2015, 06:22 PM
 
Location: New Yawk
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No ****ing way. There are more than enough sponge-worthy single dudes out there (assuming I was single and on the prowl, too).
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Old 08-28-2015, 06:29 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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No I would not even though I've was tempted today.
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Old 08-28-2015, 06:30 PM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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If it is just a girlfriend, I'd seriously consider it. If it is a wife you talking about, hell naw.
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Old 08-28-2015, 07:14 PM
 
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When I was younger, I'd do it if I didn't respect their relationship (i.e. it was your categorical immature HS/early college relationship). Now though, things are different, and I don't think there's a circumstance where I'd do it (have had plenty of opportunities with varying details, haven't taken any)... I think when people are truly invested in/committed to one another, they should stay true to that, and honor their partner. I'm trying to ask myself what that has to do with me, and I guess my answer is that I just don't think it's right to disrupt those commitments, particularly if I care about one or more of the people involved.
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Old 08-28-2015, 07:33 PM
 
Location: Northville, MI
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Nope. I do not want to be part of any cheating scams.
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Old 08-29-2015, 12:31 AM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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Only if they are the aggressor.
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Old 08-29-2015, 12:41 AM
 
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Not a chance, because I would hate to be the person that got cheated on.
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Old 08-29-2015, 10:35 AM
 
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Yes;kinda depends but;if the feeling is mutual; let's just hope nobody gets hurt
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