Would you sleep with someone if you knew they had a boyfriend/girlfriend? (marriage, women)

[Vinny_Cisco]

This happen long ago to me I met someone on a college campus and she was an older woman but even thou she had a boyfriend we eventually slept together and did it. I personally don't regret since Im single I can do what I want. We got along very well and she tells me she liked me better than her current boyfriend althou a couples days after sleeping with each she just stop texting so whatever it was fun while it lasted. I never heard from her after I went to her house party but it was fun. She does a lot of things without bringing her boyfriend as far as I know I usually don't really like getting involved with someone who had a boyfriend but I had no idea what was her problem

So would you sleep with someone knowing they had a boyfriend or girlfriend?

[Tune_It_Lower]

You sound fine with it, why are you even asking? You want moral guidance or something?

[Auraliea]

I wouldn't do it because that's ****** up.

But if you're okay with it....why are you asking?

[Vinny_Cisco]

Originally Posted by Tune_It_Lower

You sound fine with it, why are you even asking? You want moral guidance or something?

Just for fling or just some fun. I prefer not to be sleeping with someone who already has a boyfriend but if she kept insisting sure why not?

[hawaiiancoconut]

I have never been that desperate where I would have sex with someone in a committed relationship. I find my moral compass is pretty much locked in.

[Fargobound]

Nope that's how some people end up getting gunned down.

[Skydive Outlaw]

I've been with a few married women. It was always a win-win for both of us.

I never judged them, was able to let them break free of the chains of sexual oppression they were bound in due to their marriage and always took them to the next level of their orgasmic evolution.

While silently confirming that women, when capable of it (being attractive), actually will cheat as much as they claim men do.

It is important to note: If or when some women cheat (about 62% will cheat at least once when in a long term relationship)
it is not only for sex. I've learned alot about female psychology in my journeys. Most of the time when a woman cheats, it is due to:

Not getting emotional needs met in her primary relationship.

Hypergamy

Attempting to maintain an upper hand or sense of control in her primary relationship.

EIPMs: Emotional Involvement Preventive Measures. In an attempt to not get too close (emotional or psychologically) to the primary partner for fear of engulfment in that relationship or losing a sense of self by surrendering to the commitment required (monogamy), a woman will use cheating as a way to balance or regulate her emotions in the primary relationship.

Pervasive and ingrained narcissism.

And the list goes on, but the less significant reason or cause is sexual, although that can sometimes be a component or factor.

[LS Jaun]

Originally Posted by Tune_It_Lower

You sound fine with it, why are you even asking? You want moral guidance or something?

Maybe he wants some validation? Anyway, there are a lot of people that do it, but don't admit it.

[HappyRain]

If I were totally desperate for attention, then I might. Otherwise, usually something I frown upon.

[LS Jaun]

Originally Posted by Skydive Outlaw

I've been with a few married women. It was always a win-win for both of us.

I never judged them, was able to let them break free of the chains of sexual oppression they were bound in due to their marriage and always took them to the next level of their orgasmic evolution.

While silently confirming that women, when capable of it (being attractive), actually will cheat as much as they claim men do.

It is important to note: If or when some women cheat (about 62% will cheat at least once when in a long term relationship)
it is not only for sex. I've learned alot about female psychology in my journeys. Most of the time when a woman cheats, it is due to:

Not getting emotional needs met in her primary relationship.

Hypergamy

Attempting to maintain an upper hand or sense of control in her primary relationship.

EIPMs: Emotional Involvement Preventive Measures. In an attempt to not get too close (emotional or psychologically) to the primary partner for fear of engulfment in that relationship or losing a sense of self by surrendering to the commitment required (monogamy), a woman will use cheating as a way to balance or regulate her emotions in the primary relationship.

Pervasive and ingrained narcissism.

And the list goes on, but the less significant reason or cause is sexual, although that can sometimes be a component or factor.

I used to think the same thing. The rest might help drive someone to it, but natural sexual desire is pretty powerful. You know when a woman is attracted and very comfortable with you many of the sexual taboos just go away.