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I'm a married straight man, but even if single there is no way I would ever consider a relationship with a 40+ woman who is a virgin. Human sexual contact is a very normal and natural thing. If one is a virgin at that age, having shunned and avoided that very natural and normal aspect of human pair-bonding for over two decades of adulthood, it's due to one of two things:
*profound dysfunction, or
*very weird religiosity
And I want no part of either of those things.
Glad you are not my husband then. I was a 40 year old virgin when we got married. Well, we did the deed before we got married and he said it was his most powerful O in a long time. I actually don't know why he said that but it is what it is. And maybe that's why he married me after only 2 months of dating.
My husband was divorced for 16 years and he said he was essentially a virgin too coz he hasn't got any after his divorce, LOL.
We have a good sex life and actually we just did it last night and he said it was good.
I am a woman though. But since I was a 40 year old virgin, I don't judge a 40 yr old virgin man. I understand whatever his reasons are. I lived it.
In fact, when I was active online dating, I prefer to meet a 40 yr old virgin man, too. Actually I am looking for virgin men like me. LOL. I got a divorced guy with a lot of baggage instead. Oh well.
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Gee, a little touchy are we? Did you see me claim to speak for everyone? Did you see me claim to speak for anyone but myself?
Grow up, fellas, being hypersensitive isn't attractive, virgin or not.
You don't have to claim it when you make a statement like
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Originally Posted by MoonBeam33
It is very clear that all the posters claiming it's no big deal have either never been with a virgin, or haven't been with a virgin in a long time. Yeah, it's a big deal.
This just goes to show that no matter how old sone people get they are still stuck in a high school mentality. The responses here are disgusting.
My post was cut (it was on the first page), so now it just looks like my answer is "Totally NO", but the part that was cut was what gave my post all its value (and meaning).
In short, it was intended to be heavily sarcastic, and the whole point was that it's really easy to pick out innocuous arbitrary traits and write people off. I think we're all better served using wider evaluations though. I for one, usually like to start with whether or not I like the other person.
Gee, a little touchy are we? Did you see me claim to speak for everyone? Did you see me claim to speak for anyone but myself?
Grow up, fellas, being hypersensitive isn't attractive, virgin or not.
Once again it seems that you really can't handle people who disagree with you. So it's only convenient for you to claim that we are being hypersensitive then to just accept that people don't agree with you.
It's a common tactic to use to discredit someone because you don't want to debate the topic at hand.
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I waited until almost 30. Up until then, I held strict religious views on sexuality being raised Catholic. Never even done "feeling myself up" until buying a toy at 30. As I was approaching 30, I was like I'm not waiting any longer, I'm doing it married or not lol.
Now after getting a taste of it & really enjoying it, I can't seem to find a man to do it with that wants to be with me more than just sex. fml
It is very clear that all the posters claiming it's no big deal have either never been with a virgin, or haven't been with a virgin in a long time. Yeah, it's a big deal.
Meh. I've been with a couple, and had no complaints. Probably because they weren't all weird and insecure about being virgins, and were totally fine with me showing 'em the ropes. Although I was actually quite impressed with their natural talent.
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Oh well.
