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Yes, when we talked on the phone last week, he mentioned some things that he wants to do to me. I told him that what he's describing sounds damn good. I told him a couple of things I want to do to him and he was getting aroused at the thought of it.
I'm just hoping that I'm as good as I've been told in the past. Is it just like riding a bike? When I go down on him, will it all come back to me?
Sometimes it's rushed or you have too much alcohol, but you can always go for round 2.
Okay, maybe "sick to my stomach" was the wrong way to describe this. Nervous apprehension is more the issue. Yes, I do want to have sex with him and when I think about what we might possibly do, I'm turned on to the point of moaning out loud to myself when I'm driving in the car.
I think that I've had way too much time to think about this since he booked his flight and perhaps I am imagining too much in my head. Yes, we have met in person, talked on the phone for hours on several occasions, and text message every day. He's staying in my hotel room with me and I have to work during the day, so we will be together in the evenings for four nights.
To whomever said, "have a glass of red wine and relax," you'd better bet your left arm that's what I plan to do! I might have a few of those plus a shot of vodka to calm myself down. All kidding aside, I just feel nervous because I've only been with one man in the last 10 years and haven't done ANYTHING with ANYONE in the last two years.
I do want to make love with him, rip his clothes off, and go totally crazy wild with him!!! Still.....I'm scared. I almost feel like a born again virgin.
Two years isn't that long of a time. I'm sure you remember how to have sex.
This is going to sound really silly and inexperienced. But here goes. We are going to be sharing a room and bed. When he gets there, I am going to be busy with co-workers, i.e. going to dinner and then, working on a project after dinner with them. I will most likely be back in the room at about 10 p.m. I have to be up early, but can function on 4-5 hours of sleep.
Should I get ready for bed, climb into the bed, and see what happens? I do not want to be aggressive and make the first move on him. And let's face it, the first time is not going to be wham bam thank you ma'am. I can tell from the last time we were together, that he likes to caress a woman and take his time.
We have not kissed ever, but I'd like to have some of that, some foreplay, caressing, and then lead into making love.
Maybe this doesn't even have to happen the first night that he's there. I know it won't the second night because we have a function to go to that won't end until midnight. So, there's always Friday and Saturday night, plus Sunday morning.
This is helping for me to type my thoughts out on this forum. Thanks to all who are listening and responding. I'm probably over analyzing this way too much and should just see what happens naturally.
This is going to sound really silly and inexperienced. But here goes. We are going to be sharing a room and bed. When he gets there, I am going to be busy with co-workers, i.e. going to dinner and then, working on a project after dinner with them. I will most likely be back in the room at about 10 p.m. I have to be up early, but can function on 4-5 hours of sleep.
Should I get ready for bed, climb into the bed, and see what happens? I do not want to be aggressive and make the first move on him. And let's face it, the first time is not going to be wham bam thank you ma'am. I can tell from the last time we were together, that he likes to caress a woman and take his time.
We have not kissed ever, but I'd like to have some of that, some foreplay, caressing, and then lead into making love.
Maybe this doesn't even have to happen the first night that he's there. I know it won't the second night because we have a function to go to that won't end until midnight. So, there's always Friday and Saturday night, plus Sunday morning.
This is helping for me to type my thoughts out on this forum. Thanks to all who are listening and responding. I'm probably over analyzing this way too much and should just see what happens naturally.
I've actually never understood the point of "dates" or "visits" where most of the time is actually spent with OTHER people! I guess to some they like being included in the host's bigger group - but I would be insulted that I came for a visit and you don't want to do stuff with ME! You're putting undue pressure on the first night by overscheduling on the second night. Bad timing for a visit if you truly can't get out of those "obligations".
When I have sex with someone for the first time, I always assume it is going to be awkward and embarrassing. When you break it down, sex is pretty ridiculous. You're going to put What WHERE?
I try to make sure it is playful and fun (not in a way that will make him feel I'm laughing at HIM, very important distinction) And also make sure he knows I enjoyed it totally even if the outcome wasn't totally spectacular. Trust me, guys cannot have too many compliments when it comes to their sexual performance.
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All kidding aside, I just feel nervous because I've only been with one man in the last 10 years and haven't done ANYTHING with ANYONE in the last two years.
