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Having sex with you doesn't mean he likes you, it means you gave him the opportunity and he took it.
This is why you should work all this stuff out before having sex. Now is not really the time to be asking "does he like me?"
Ok? Anyone could lie and say they like you in order to have sex, so how is that a foolproof method? Still a gamble either way. Plenty men tell women they're into them just to bed them
Ok? Anyone could lie and say they like you in order to have sex, so how is that a foolproof method?
I never said anything was foolproof.
I just said it makes no sense to have sex and then try to figure out if he likes you. And yes, anyone can lie. That's why you spend time with each other (dates), so you get an idea what type of person the other is, and figure out if you guys like each other.
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I just said it makes no sense to have sex and then try to figure out if he likes you. And yes, anyone can lie. That's why you spend time with each other (dates), so you get an idea what type of person the other is, and figure out if you guys like each other.
... I already know this. No need to be patronizing
I have no trouble with casual sex, but at least know why you are doing something.
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I just wanted to know people's stance on when you hang out with a guy and he makes comments about other women or compares you to them. To me it sends the signal "I'm not interested". But this guy also claims to be attracted to me? Why talk about how sexy other women are then? If you were into someone wouldn't that not be in your mind? I don't understand.I've been out of dating for a while so I don't know what to make of it. Also I don't mean to brag but I'm generally good looking and curvy (in a good way). Part of me thinks he was trying to make me insecure feeling because he knew I had been seeing other people? I was honest with him about how I had hung out with a few other guys very recently.
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Talked about porn, compared me to other women of my ethnicity and said I'm prettier which confused me because I think his "type" is a different ethnicity, meaning it felt like he was saying"oh you're pretty.. For a ___ girl". He mentioned this other ethnicity several times so I feel he might be more attracted to them.
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Well he discussed another ethnicity so I don't know. I feel insecure that I may not be his type. I asked him if he had a type he said no, but his mentioning this other ethnicity multiple times makes me think he does have a type..
Yikes..It only took the first few posts by you to understand what you are doing..(never mind other postings)..I smell something..Fee Fye Fo Fum//If you know what I'm getting act...
BTW~~ Common sense and good manners..dictates NOT sharing personal behaviours with others..unless and of course to pump up ones profile..and THAT profile for descent folk means " Predator"..and oh....Hey..Females can VERY MUCH be PREDATORS too
ETA~~ Hopefully a Mod will Stop/delete this thread :..-( Not into sexual baiting behaviour
If hes talking about other women or making comparisons...well, you're nothing more than a bang buddy. But I think, you already know this.
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or is this ^^^ sour grapes???
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