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I'm married to this guy who i knew 7 years and after that we got married and we are married for 5 years now ..
we are still young though I'm 26 and he is almost 28 ...
the issue once i married him i saw a side of him that i've never thought it exist he is a MONSTER he hurt me by words and acts .. we tried many time to work it out and i tried many times to leave overtime i did he would beg me to come back and that he would really change this time.. cause i really loved him i believed what he said ..it takes a while and after that he will return to the person he is .. even family members get involved in this matter.. even i had a medical prove once and hand it to the police they asked me if i'd like to put him in jail but i said no I'll give him one more chance... we had our baby and i thought this will solve everything up .. he was good but it was just a matter of time .. now my baby is 2 years old and our relationship is a mess..
he disrespect me all the time without a reason ... he is barely home with me or with his kid.. all he want to do is spend time out side of the house and with his friends i feel like any activities include us together is feels like a burden on his shoulder and it's just a task that needs to be done ..
today we got in this fight because i had enough of him disrespecting me
his mother encouraged him ( as we live in his parents home ) she come and says that it's my job to take care of the baby and he is man i told her you are wrong this ain't my job alone as much as the child want me he want his father too ...
anyways at the end of the fight i had the 3 hardest slaps on my face from my husband !!! and i was so numb that i couldn't feel the pain ..
it hurts and i know with all of what happened we can never be together ..
he went out and when he came he asked me why i was home i told him i was taking care of the baby who would take care of him if I'm gone ... now i just don't know really don't know what to do all i know is that i have to leave but i don't know how I'll take care of my baby while I'm gone to work my baby is only 2 years old he goes to nursery get back home 12:30 and i come back from home 4 o'clock it's very hard almost impossible ..
i never i shouldn't be here anymore but it's like the only choice i have any help pleasE ?
Children do not resolve relationship issues.
Young kids shouldn't marry.
Now there is the mess because he wants to party and you need a husband and father to your child.
Get out of this house, get some help, get away from him and his family. Go to your family?? Any friends? Women's shelter? Anything is better than staying there.
You're doing this to yourself.
You can't play the Vitcim when you willingly put yourself back in bad situations.
You are aware, don't play dumb just becuase you got burned yet again and feel bad now.
well it's not that easy ..
and it's easier said than done ..
if i didn't have my child i would 100% just walk away and i've done it before now when i think i don't think just about my self i think about my baby boy and how this would effect him growing up, I'm thinking about what to do if i leave now either leave the child with him ( which is a thing that i would never do ) or take him with me yet have no one to look after him when he get back from the nursery and I'm at work ( his mom now keep him with her 'til i get back from work )
i really don't know And maybe i put myself in this situation because i was so foolish to believe in him and loving him i never thought he would be such a bad husband and father what a waste of my heart !!!
You said he slapped you hard in the face three times, which to me is unforgiveable. I would go to a shelter with my child. They have resources there to help you. Your baby's grandma might still be interested in helping you during the day.
You're doing this to yourself.
You can't play the Vitcim when you willingly put yourself back in bad situations.
You are aware, don't play dumb just becuase you got burned yet again and feel bad now.
Hey azzhat. Exactly how does your ****ty post help OP? Stop being a jerk.
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