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time to let go op, move on and let go of these people. it's not a good idea to allow negativity into your life and people who are not trustworthy. i think relations will be ruined now between you and him because of this incident and things will never be the same and trust will be destroyed. just re-reading it, you said your bestie is dating some guy, so your bf could be cheating with her? how does that work if she is dating someone who was in the shot? regardless of that, what i said first still applies because the trust will be broken now.
You bf's boss doesn't like you. Why should he care who his friend/employee is seeing? That's your bf's business. How do you know that he doesn't like you? Does your bf make it a habit of running and telling you nasty comments he has made? (Not good. Why wouldn't he tell this man he is his boss only at work? Otherwise, his personal life is his personal life and he makes his own decisions.)
your bff showed you naked pics of her and a couple of others...(why? was she trying to see if you got aroused and maybe could be in their next "photo session". Very odd behavior on her part and not sure what motive she had in doing so.)
You told your bf about the half naked pics of your bff.( Why? What motive did you have in doing so? You pointed out he was a big flirter before you two dated and has an attraction to this woman. I think most men (and some women) would have a natural curiosity to check it out.)
You were checking your bf's phone. (Why? Is that a habit of yours to look on his phone? What were you thinking you might find. The trust was an issue before the button clicked on that camera to take those pics.)
You confronted your bf about the pics on his phone and he said his boss possibly did it. (Ok....if it had been me, and I had gotten that far I would have said, "alright, call him and ask him. Put him on speaker phone." Then I would have watched him hem and haw his way through that, because I doubt seriously he left his phone laying around long enough for his boss to go to the site and download stuff to it. Even so, does he know that girl's name, does he know the site the pics were on, and how would he know for sure that you would even look at the phone to find them. In other words, that excuse sounds extremely weak to me.)
All that said......men are going to look. Heck, I know for sure they are going to stare at other women (just some are more sensitive to us and don't make it so darn obvious). And if there is someone they know and see sometimes who has clearly made it known that she has posted a pic of her unclad boobs on the internet, I doubt there are too many men out there who are not going to check it out.
The good thing is, OP, look at it this way..there are a bunch of hunks out there. Does your bf have a nice build? Well, it doesn't matter. You can check out all the men who do. It is a two way street. They prob. even have a screen saver with one of them. Enjoy the view!
Or set of boobs. What are you doing with his phone? Seriously though what's the difference between that and porn pics? Who cares? And stay away from people's phones!
LOL. It's definitely #2. My husband who now regularly faps on the fappening website. Found it out from me. Coz I was talking to him about how JLaw got leak nudes on that site. Oh well.
Next time, just don't share ANY boob or porn or naked related anything to your guy. Because... THEY WILL LOOK FOR IT!!!
He grabbed the phone from you and deleted the pictures so he knew they were on there.
I vote for he is lying.
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Gawd get creative and send boob pics through his phone to your friends phone and say these are the only boobs he needs.Now step off.
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Coz I was talking to him about how JLaw got leak nudes on that site. Oh well.
