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Old 09-17-2015, 01:18 PM
 
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Okay, so now I'm confused, are you broken up or not?

Did she break up with you because of her ex, or did she call you back and say she made a mistake because of her ex?
I agreed to see her again tomorrow. She's coming over for dinner.
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Old 09-17-2015, 01:31 PM
 
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You said yourself, a few posts back, that it was a good thing that you hadn't gotten intimate because it makes moving on easier. I do agree with you on that point.
Still feel that way, thinking about changing up from dinner plans at my house to a night on the town instead.
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Old 09-29-2015, 10:34 AM
 
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Update: It's been a couple weeks. Still seeing this woman, she seems in to me, we talk and see each other more often, a few dates a week and talking every day. I still have reservations about her ex being in the picture but really enjoy being with her. We click. We've started talking about our future together more as the days and weeks pass.

A new twist, I set up a date with another woman the evening the first woman broke it off with me. Instant attraction, she's like the complete opposite of the woman I've been seeing. Very attentive, talking about our future together after 3 dates. I really like her. We're heading toward an exclusive relationship quickly if I don't pump the brakes hard.

Now I'm dating both women and cant keep it up for long (although the purple pill helps ). I'm ready for a relationship and not interested in casual dating. At the same time, I 've met 2 wonderful women who I could see myself being exclusive with. Feeling like a complete D-Bag, I'm stringing one of these wonderful ladies along, I just don't know which one or how to do this right. ......Dating sucks....
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Old 09-29-2015, 10:42 AM
 
Location: Atlanta, GA
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You have to be on the same page for both parties to be happy. Unfortunately for lady#1, lady#2 seems to be more your speed.

A word of caution... you know lady#1 a bit better, the good and the bad. You have yet to know the good and bad with lady#2. Grass is always greener...
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Old 09-29-2015, 12:23 PM
 
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Dont feel like a d-bag, and dating doesnt suck. Its why its called dating. You have to kiss a lot of toads to find a prince, not that they are toads and you arent looking for a prince. You are obviously a good guy looking for a relationship, the only way to find that is to date. You, and only you, know which situation will be a future for you, and Im confident that you won't string anyone along.

Its okay, it will all work out in the end. Lucky you to have found 2 people you like so much.
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Old 09-29-2015, 04:29 PM
 
Location: Canada
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A word of caution... you know lady#1 a bit better, the good and the bad. You have yet to know the good and bad with lady#2. Grass is always greener...
I agree with this.

And in the end, when people have debates between their head and their heart, go with your gut.
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Old 09-21-2016, 07:47 AM
 
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It's been a year since I posted this, reviving it and closing it out with an outcome. Lady number 2 for the win. We're living together and very happy.
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Old 09-21-2016, 08:09 AM
 
Location: Raleigh, North Carolina
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How did it resolve for lady #1?
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Old 09-21-2016, 08:23 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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It's been a year since I posted this, reviving it and closing it out with an outcome. Lady number 2 for the win. We're living together and very happy.
Awesome!!!
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Old 09-21-2016, 08:27 AM
 
Location: California
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Another win for having options, as opposed to chasing the proverbial rainbow.

Glad it worked out.
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