Is she really out of your league? (younger, famous, reason)
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I'm with hawaiiancoconut, I hope you're kidding but if you're not then I'm glad you conquered it cause we'd miss you terribly on here. I say that and I've only been around for a couple days!
I'm interested to hear how you would define leagues since you view them differently
I posted this before, but I'll do it again. When I look at a woman, I don't just look at her body, but how she uses her body. Her body language. If she often has a smile on her face, then I am more likely to talk to her. If we can laugh together and be comfortable together, then I consider her in my league so far. Then we eventually get into deeper territory and see where there is commonality and differences.
Leagues for me is overall compatibility, not just looks
Trust me, if you are an ugly black guy like I am, you won't be able to get one to come within 10 feet of you.
Dang, how ugly are you? I myself am far from looking MY best, but...I can relate, I remember those days when women avoided me like the plague that crapped out aids with aids crapping and eating its own crap and barfing
You're not an ugly dude... If I recall from your pic you had posted up before.
Most people aren't really ugly..... most people tend to fall into average... but average is still "attractive" that can mean many things, your looks, your personality, I think you just have to work on finding out what is your "thing" is..... for me it used to be my looks, I was always considered a good looking guy, not bragging, just saying, but I've put on some weight over the yrs, got older and as we do, the looks start to fade. Now for me comedy is sort of my "thing"........ so I suggest you turn off that tape you have playing in your head and see what is your "thing"
Yeah, that's it. Find your trademark. But it has to be something you really and truly like. If I'm any indication, if you find your element, then maybe your luck with women will change somewhat.
Ah. Well I'm just saying that in the event that you ever have a gorgeous woman say she likes you wants you to get to know her / for her to get to know you that you should take it for what it is and see she actually really likes you. Even if you end up pushing her away just know that she's likely being very genuine.
I've known a couple guys to push beautiful women away from them because they thought it was too good to be true. And were awful to her, making it known they weren't done "playing the field" or that they hadn't met a girl they really fancied just yet...all to just get her to go away. When in reality they were head-over-heels for her they were just afraid. But she didn't know that and she ended up walking out of their lives because she figured it's what they wanted. Plus why should she subject herself to constant pain from the guy she's head-over-heels for? Way too many men self-sabotaging themselves these days! When's it's real you'll know it..sometimes too late....unfortunately it hurts all involved.
Dang, how ugly are you? I myself am far from looking MY best, but...I can relate, I remember those days when women avoided me like the plague that crapped out aids with aids crapping and eating its own crap and barfing
Dissenter isn't an ugly dude... he's just being self deprecating.... I fear also it's a defense mechanism to avoid the painful possibility of rejection that we all face... but whatever... he's a grown man, so he can do what he pleases......
He's a bright young man and I hate so see a guy waste his life and youth on things that can be remedied...
I'm a much older guy and I've got the experience of hindsight to see when someone is on the less than optimal path.... I hope things work out for him.... life is far far too short to waste on nonsense... and I mean that....
Most things we fret and worry and concern ourselves with, especially the negative... is nonsense.....just mindless nonsense...........
Looking good is not vital, atleast not for men. Women tend to value confidence, status and money more than looks in men. That's the hard truth. If you want to attract women "out of your leage", step up your game. Look as good as you possibly can and start to train to become more confident.
And the friendzone is real unfortunately...even more so than leagues. I've seen my buddy date a girl, then become friends, then try again with her and she wouldn't have it. He wasn't her type anyways they just dated because of the situation they were in. It was almost embarrassing watching him try with her again and again because we all knew that time was dead and gone for them. It was sad really and quite embarrassing for him and to watch. He would've been safer just dismissing that altogether. They weren't even as close as he thought. Ugh I'm feeling embarrassed for him just thinking about it!
Well it's not really the friendzone because we both agreed to be friends. At the time, she was 7 and I was 6.
Last edited by 49ersfan27; 09-18-2015 at 12:14 PM..
Well it's really the friendzone because we both agreed to be friends. At the time, she was 7 and I was 6.
That makes sense! Haha
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