ok guys please explain "the friendzone situation" to me.
I always thought it referred to the disappointment a man feels when his chosen lady gives him the "lets just be friends" talk.
What I didn't realize, until now, is apparently that disappointment is enough for the seeking guy to erase the female completely from his personal sphere of existence.
So what happens to all these wishes to be friends? Would you all rather the girl said, "dude, no matter what you do, I'm not going there with you"? Would that make you happier with the girl and more able to treat them as actual human beings and maybe hang out sometime, rather than just c*cking material?
There's a massive >>???<< when guys say they want a relationship, then when offered one (albeit not sexual), react like they've just been offered a dose of the plague!
Do y'all want a relationship, or do you just want a breathing sex toy?