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The guy is testing your friend to see if she'll have sex with him. Hence the nonchalant question about the rooms. Very slick, he practiced this line before
She should talk to him about wanting sex after commitment. I assume she doesn't want a hookup?
The trip to France is a distraction, he's hoping the trip and hotel setup will make her feel obliged to him. Tell her to carry enough money for a hotel and flight back.
What's so difficult to see?
That is insinuating the worse of someone you don't know.
Do all pedophiles drive vans?
Sheesh. Just tell her separate rooms with the jointing door.
As someone with a fairly average job and no humanitarian charities linked to my name, it irks me that girls will jump to sex simply because the guy looks good on paper.
Then they ask why didn't they see it coming?
where is your self respect? First date and he suggests the possibility of sleeping in the same room? He shouldn't even assume she would say yes. FML.
"Oh no, This guy is involved environmental and humanitarian causes, we have all his info he has a high profile in DC. He just want to show her France, he is not forcing things, thats why he suggested separate rooms."
If this is how you determine a gentleman, you will be played a lot.
My best friend just met this guy literally one date, she says guy didn't ry to kiss her and he was a true gentleman through the date .. She does like the guy so all is cool.... BUt.... he has invited her to travel to France. He sent her the airplane tickets today while we were at the hair salon and also texted her asking her If she wants to stay in same room with him or if she prefers her own room that either way is fine with him. In my opinion, he sounds like a gentleman, but she doesn't know what to do and not sure what to adviser because if something goes wrong I will feel terrible.... What do you think?
Fill us in on the details after the disaster occurs.
Do y'all ever lighten up on anything around this place.. like ever? Geez, ...judgemental much?
Oops. Sorry. Couldn't help myself from exhibiting the very behavior that sparked my interruption here in the first place. Tsk...
My answer (and, btw... thank you,
Meyerland): Separate hotel rooms
When's the trip? How soon? Investigate more, ...is what I'd do.
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