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Old 09-28-2015, 08:44 AM
 
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Originally Posted by UnaWilde View Post
Do you want my honest opinion?

The guy is testing your friend to see if she'll have sex with him. Hence the nonchalant question about the rooms. Very slick, he practiced this line before


She should talk to him about wanting sex after commitment. I assume she doesn't want a hookup?

The trip to France is a distraction, he's hoping the trip and hotel setup will make her feel obliged to him. Tell her to carry enough money for a hotel and flight back.

What's so difficult to see?
That is insinuating the worse of someone you don't know.

Do all pedophiles drive vans?

Sheesh. Just tell her separate rooms with the jointing door.
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Old 09-28-2015, 08:54 AM
 
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As someone with a fairly average job and no humanitarian charities linked to my name, it irks me that girls will jump to sex simply because the guy looks good on paper.

Then they ask why didn't they see it coming?

where is your self respect? First date and he suggests the possibility of sleeping in the same room? He shouldn't even assume she would say yes. FML.

"Oh no, This guy is involved environmental and humanitarian causes, we have all his info he has a high profile in DC. He just want to show her France, he is not forcing things, thats why he suggested separate rooms."

If this is how you determine a gentleman, you will be played a lot.
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Old 09-28-2015, 08:58 AM
 
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He sees London, he sees France ...

Wish I may,
Wish I might.

Sleep with you in Paris,
Just for the night.
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Old 09-28-2015, 09:12 AM
 
Location: california
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If he has kind of money, he can afford to wait till she get's to know him a lot better before making that kind of commitment.
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Old 09-28-2015, 09:19 AM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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Staying in the same room?
Heck, being flown out of the country after ONE DATE is not even right....
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Old 09-28-2015, 10:19 AM
 
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Bill Cosby had a "high profile".
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Old 09-28-2015, 10:52 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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He wants to show her French stuff or France?

Anyhow - going on a plane after one date to be with a STRANGER is insane. That's how people disappear.
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Old 09-28-2015, 11:05 AM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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Maybe he said he wants to show her the Eiffel Tower and she misunderstood.

No no, he said they can take the Chunnel to see Big Ben (or was it Big Ben in the Chunnel?)
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Old 09-28-2015, 11:09 AM
 
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My best friend just met this guy literally one date, she says guy didn't ry to kiss her and he was a true gentleman through the date .. She does like the guy so all is cool.... BUt.... he has invited her to travel to France. He sent her the airplane tickets today while we were at the hair salon and also texted her asking her If she wants to stay in same room with him or if she prefers her own room that either way is fine with him. In my opinion, he sounds like a gentleman, but she doesn't know what to do and not sure what to adviser because if something goes wrong I will feel terrible.... What do you think?
Fill us in on the details after the disaster occurs.
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Old 09-30-2015, 11:38 PM
 
Location: CA
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Default Oh hell... Yes, I'm swearing, now...

Do y'all ever lighten up on anything around this place.. like ever? Geez, ...judgemental much?
Oops. Sorry. Couldn't help myself from exhibiting the very behavior that sparked my interruption here in the first place. Tsk...


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Staying at the Same Hotel Room w Him?


My answer (and, btw... thank you,
Meyerland): Separate hotel rooms

When's the trip? How soon? Investigate more, ...is what I'd do.
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