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Old 09-20-2015, 07:09 AM
 
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I would've ran lol

Her response was.. "I love you,too."

She is my wife.
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Old 09-20-2015, 07:17 AM
 
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Her response was.. "I love you,too."

She is my wife.
I think that is sweet that it worked out for both of you.


For me, I would think if someone was that way early on, I would think they were not really "in love" with me because they didn't really know me. I used to believe that "love at first sight" could be possible. Not anymore. I think, it is important to be with someone for a good while and learn everything you can about one another. I would hate to tell myself I had fallen in love with someone and end up getting hurt when I realized it was one-sided or if we became too serious too soon only to go through a breakup.
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Old 09-20-2015, 07:21 AM
 
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Nonsense. I assume you don't date men, so you've never had men do it to you.
Let's play a game. I'll go first.

Fatal Attraction.

Your turn.
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Old 09-20-2015, 07:46 AM
 
Location: Utica, NY
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Let's play a game. I'll go first.

Fatal Attraction.

Your turn.
A movie.
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Old 09-20-2015, 07:47 AM
 
Location: Utica, NY
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Her response was.. "I love you,too."

She is my wife.
Well, that's sweet, but I would find it a bit strange and pushy. I don't see how you can fall in love with someone so quickly, but if it was mutual then fair enough. I think it's more a case of infatuation at first.
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Old 09-20-2015, 07:49 AM
 
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I love you after 2 dates? It's happened a few times. It isn't persistence, it's creepy and weird. You can't love someone after just 2 or even 5 dates. And then demanding that I message them back or reply

I'm not saying women don't do it, but this wasn't an attack on men. It's aimed at clingy people in general.
Boys, never trust a woman who uses the word creepy. I mean it.
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Old 09-20-2015, 07:52 AM
 
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It irritates the crap out of me when people do it.
So what. it's none of your business what other people say to each other.
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Old 09-20-2015, 07:54 AM
 
Location: Utica, NY
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So what. it's none of your business what other people say to each other.
When they do it to me.
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Old 09-20-2015, 07:57 AM
 
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I am trying to make sense of why some people act in an overly attached or clingy manner when they meet someone. Does it not register that most people will be highly put off by such behaviour?

I'm talking about incessant texting, "I love you" way too early on (like on the 2nd date), pressure to move in together, asking why you haven't called or texted back within a certain amount of time.

Why do people do this? As far as I am concerned, it's an instant attraction killer and something that will make me simply want to run for the hills.

I'd love some opinions on this. It irritates the crap out of me when people do it.
Girls do it more.
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Old 09-20-2015, 07:57 AM
 
Location: Utica, NY
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Girls do it more.
Prove it
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