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Old 09-20-2015, 04:26 PM
 
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This is something that I never admitted to others in real life, but nudity or more body exposure for women doesn't turn me on at all. I have fetishes for women in sporty outfits, usually a t shirt and nike tempo shorts or sweatpants, which I get is perfectly normal for guys to have such fetishes. But the more body exposure I see, the more I am actually turned off, so bikini women and porn mean nothing to me whatsoever, and in fact my first instinct if I accidentally click on porn is to look away and close the window. While I do like to search online photos of girls at soccer practices and masturbate over those in my free time. Will this be a problem when I get a girlfriend, as I feel like sex isn't something that I'm interested in? I have had romantic feelings for girls so it seems pretty normal on that front.
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Old 09-20-2015, 04:28 PM
 
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Yes, this is abnormal. Being attracted to the naked female form is normal. I love female nudity. You may want to explore this topic in some sort of professional counseling (sex therapist comes to mind).
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Old 09-20-2015, 04:32 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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This is something that I never admitted to others in real life, but nudity or more body exposure for women doesn't turn me on at all. I have fetishes for women in sporty outfits, usually a t shirt and nike tempo shorts or sweatpants, which I get is perfectly normal for guys to have such fetishes. But the more body exposure I see, the more I am actually turned off, so bikini women and porn mean nothing to me whatsoever, and in fact my first instinct if I accidentally click on porn is to look away and close the window. While I do like to search online photos of girls at soccer practices and masturbate over those in my free time. Will this be a problem when I get a girlfriend, as I feel like sex isn't something that I'm interested in? I have had romantic feelings for girls so it seems pretty normal on that front.
Good luck for the future mate you'll need it!!!

Btw " dry humping " is a great way to Ruin an expensive pair of jeans lol ( apparently )
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Old 09-20-2015, 04:36 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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What ever works for you.
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Old 09-20-2015, 04:49 PM
 
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Eh.... *shrug*

Context is important. My wife and I spent two weeks at a naturist resort in Spain, and I can tell you that after seeing naked bodies of every age group for that many days in a row, I became mostly desensitized to female nudity. It evolved into reactions like "wow she has an impressive set of boobs" when I'd walk by a naked woman, rather than an instant state of arousal.

I think nudity is sexy because we keep ourselves always covered up. Like how back in the day, exposed ankles were serious wow moments for most men, because women were covered from head to toe. Any skin at that point is sexy. But if it's always showing it isn't exciting anymore. Taboo things and the imagination are often the sexiest.

So context. I wouldn't say you're weird, necessarily.
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Old 09-20-2015, 11:18 PM
 
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I have something similar to the op, but I can still enjoy a naked female body.
But then again, I grew up around naked female bodies. By age four, I've seen more than ten naked females so it don't faze me none.
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Old 09-20-2015, 11:26 PM
 
Location: Texas
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I see naked people all the time.
I am frankly tired of seeing naked people.
A nice outfit giving subtle hints of sexiness is WAY more of a turn-on to me at this point.
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Old 09-20-2015, 11:47 PM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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You could always get yer girl a burqa. That'd probably drive you over the top.
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Old 09-20-2015, 11:49 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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I'm trying to keep an open mind toward the OP, but the thought of not getting wood when looking at a nekid lady seems sort of sad.

Isn't there a multiple million dollar industry in the form of little blue pills exist for the very same response I mention?????
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Old 09-21-2015, 03:59 AM
 
Location: Fuquay Varina
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I think we have to look at the naked lady first to decide lol

There is a difference between seeing Rosanne Barr naked and seeing Jessica Alba naked lol
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