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Old 09-20-2015, 08:49 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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He is not married of course
Well he is moving to another state in two weeks. so he sold his house and has been living with his parents for last 30 days. So I don't want to spend the night at his parents' place. That is why he comes to my place.
If that's the case, he may just want to keep it casual.
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Old 09-20-2015, 08:49 PM
 
Location: Eastern Shore of Maryland
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Hey everyone,

I am 24 and my bf is 37. I like him a lot.But we have a huge issue (or it seems huge to me).
Due to some circumstances, he comes over to my place and I am ok with it. Yet, he never spends the night.

Has anyone faced this kind of an issue? I don't know how to react on this
Face it all the time when I go out to eat in a Restaurant. I go in and have a good meal, and leave. This should be a warning sign.

I am sure a lot of guys will relate to this. If you have a GF you like , (just like) and the Sex is good, you spend some time together, play a little, and then go home for the day. If you "Really" care a lot, you don't want to go home. If the Girl asks why, you don't want to throw cold water on a sweet deal, so you come up with excuses. Been there, done that, as a lot of Guys have. Fun, but not serious.

That's a scenario you should consider and investigate, so if it is the case, you won't be hurt down the road. If your happy with the relationship "as is" then say nothing. Just don't expect a "Happily Ever After."
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Old 09-20-2015, 08:50 PM
 
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Maybe because he is too old for you, that's a huge age gap, ur 24 and hes 37? wow, anyways your like a little girl to him, he Is trying to tell you to get a life and leave him alone I guess, he doesn't really want anything to do with you since your still 24 and way too young for him. If you really had a boyfriend, you would know how to deal with him but you don't and that's why you come here complaining about him.....
Well I don't think it is true. I met his parents (and it was his choice). We always go out together and he introduces me as his girlfriend. We had a long distance relationship for 2 months and we were talking 24/7.
I am sorry, but I don't think I 'd agree with you.
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Old 09-20-2015, 08:52 PM
 
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Are you all breaking it off when he moves to another state?
No. Well he talks about our future plans. So I don't think he does think about break up.
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Old 09-20-2015, 09:07 PM
 
Location: Polynesia
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Accept his answers at face value. They sound legit to me and shouldn't be taken personally. It doesn't have anything to do with his feelings for you. As you get older you'll appreciate how important it is to get a good nights sleep.

Why is it so important for him to spend the night with you, especially knowing that lack of sleep causes him headaches and other problems?
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Old 09-20-2015, 09:09 PM
 
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He is not married of course
Well he is moving to another state in two weeks. so he sold his house and has been living with his parents for last 30 days. So I don't want to spend the night at his parents' place. That is why he comes to my place.
Sure?
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Old 09-20-2015, 09:12 PM
 
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sure?
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Old 09-20-2015, 09:18 PM
 
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I would think it was weird but I've come to find out that people have their own weird sleeping habits. One guy just couldn't sleep with anyone and another guy could not sleep touching me. Sometimes I can't sleep with them either and will end up sleeping on the couch. It's hard to change your habits.
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Old 09-20-2015, 09:19 PM
 
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Humm....then there are bigger issues...he's rather delicate to live with someone ever....so don't get your hopes up.....or he's still under his parents thumb.....also not good at his age.
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Old 09-20-2015, 09:25 PM
 
Location: Pa
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You aren't part of his future. He's moving you aren't.
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