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No contact is the best thing, believe me. It may not seem that way now, but over time the feelings WILL fade. You will meet others, move on with your life. Then one day down the road you may see him again and wonder what all the fuss was about....
You want back what doesn't exist as it was anymore.
You cannot have what you had by its literal meaning and by your own admission.
Accept it.
As far as loving mutable people, yes it is absolutely possible to love more than one. If this was not the case we would never go on in our lives to find another after one love has ended.
It's no different than the choice to love one. You either "love" or you do not. the amount of people involved is inconsequential to defining love.
"Love" is partially a choice.
Without your desire to act and involve yourself "love" cannot manifest or grow.
It's up to you as a person with choice to decide who is worth loving and who to involve yourself with. It all ends and begins with you, not with who it involves.
Lust is purely sexual in nature. Love is based in compassion, affection and caring btw. The two may be synonymous with one another, but they are not the same things.
Last edited by rego00123; 09-22-2015 at 09:19 AM..
That made a lot of sense.
I wish I never developed feelings for him or maybe they were always there.
Maybe it's best to leave it as one good night and close the book on it.
Some things aren't meant to be.
I'm sure his partner and children prefer he NOT maintain a friendship with a woman he slept with. Would YOU want that if you were the mother of his children? I don't think so. He's selfish, and a player, and a turd in general given his actions. But you are selfish as well. Time to grow up and move on.
That made a lot of sense.
I wish I never developed feelings for him or maybe they were always there.
Maybe it's best to leave it as one good night and close the book on it.
Some things aren't meant to be.
20/20 hindsight is painful sometimes. Best to leave him alone. It sounds like he regrets going there with you, and is trying to get his own s*** back together.
Once you have chosen to cross that "line", you can't take it back.
I know I shouldn't but I actually feel sad that he regrets it.
Don't tell me you have feelings then regret you acting upon them.
Horrible situation
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