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I feel that a man who is holding out for marriage and wants a woman who does the same is going to expect a childless woman. The born-again Christian pond is not where you should be fishing for a mate. There's no need to rush. You have a home, financial security, and children who need you. I think you will have better success once you relax and stop trying so hard.
The problem is that it's disingenuous. Waiting until marriage because you truly believe in the practice is a lot more palatable than waiting until marriage as part of an agenda.
I feel that a man who is holding out for marriage and wants a woman who does the same is going to expect a childless woman. The born-again Christian pond is not where you should be fishing for a mate. There's no need to rush. You have a home, financial security, and children who need you. I think you will have better success once you relax and stop trying so hard.
I already know a christian man would have no idea what to do with me, so no need to even look in that area. I have a wild, free spirit, live it up personality. I think men like the idea of me but rarely know what to do with me. I am fun to take around their friends, can bring fun and excitement to the bar, pool and any where I go. And it is not like I do not settle down some, but I am more Go,Go,Go then most people.
My newest guy has pursued me for a year. He truly does love me and has had a crush on me since high school. I am terrified of getting attached to him relationship wise and then have him roll out also. He does have his own house on a farn, a few miles from mine and he will never move from his house. So no concerns of him moving in.
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Most women I know that got married, had sex with their now husbands (no one know when they got married is divorced) on or before their first dates, in the vast majority of cases. So hell no.
You were married, once, weren't you? So you did find a husband.
Well we were married but he didnt want to be married to me and I got fed up quickly with him never wanting to be around me. His parents pushed the marriage thing. He never wanted the family life and he still does not now.
Ironically his cousin is my most recent ex and the similarities in the relationships were uncanny. I am done being with men that do not want to be with me. I hate being the only one showing up for a relationship and having to do all the work.
I thought the first one did not post. My apologies and this is a duplicate that can be deleted.
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