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Old 09-28-2015, 02:41 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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At least your proactive
Well, at the moment I am not dating or looking to date anybody. As far as falling in love, never experienced it so I can't miss what I've never had.
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Old 09-28-2015, 02:42 PM
 
Location: TN
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Well, at the moment I am not dating or looking to date anybody. As far as falling in love, never experienced it so I can't miss what I've never had.
*hugs*
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Old 09-28-2015, 03:31 PM
 
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As hard as it might be to believe I have had girlfriends before and I've been on dates. I am just in a really butthurt mood as of late and don't feel like opening up as easy as I used to towards the opposite sex.
Not hard to believe, just thought he was pulling your chain. I know exactly what you mean. Bad experiences taint everything. Sometimes we can create them, though by putting experiences from few onto others. Very complicated.
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Old 09-28-2015, 03:49 PM
 
Location: Pa
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I've got cream for that!
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Tried it doesn't work.
Get a room.
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Old 09-28-2015, 03:55 PM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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Well, at the moment I am not dating or looking to date anybody. As far as falling in love, never experienced it so I can't miss what I've never had.
I could so have written this post.
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Old 09-28-2015, 04:08 PM
 
Location: TN
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Get a room.
Hahaha, I've got my hands full already, no need for anyone else.
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Old 09-28-2015, 06:47 PM
 
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Yes, I've given up. All my life (45 years) Ive been unfairly judged by women because I have cerebral palsy. I could tell you stories......

I'd still like a relationship, or at least the occasional date, but it's just not worth the wear and tear on my feelings anymore.

I didn't read this entire thread so I don't know, but if any of you ever get the chance to be with a disabled person, remember two things:

1. We are people with needs and feelings just like you.

2. "Disabled" does NOT automatically mean "helpless" or "worthless".
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Old 09-29-2015, 03:22 AM
 
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Actually, I would think there is something wrong with a Mom, if she didn't expect you to take an active role in her family. I don't know of any woman that wants another "Dad" for her family, and I have know a lot of them, but they did expect the Man to fill a void, as a Male Partner to the Mother. That's a desirable trait to me. I wouldn't go so far as calling that being a "Sucker."

Actually, I would love to see the type of woman that would date you. It would be interesting, given how you feel about Relationships. Bet she would be a winner.

1. Don't like Kids
2. Don't want anything to do with one who has kids
3. Don't want to deal with any problems she may have
4. Don't want any Baggage attached.

What exactly do you have to contribute to a relationship?
Boris, do you seriously think that every single woman out in the world wants kids? Because that's honestly what it sounds like.

Also does it make you feel better to tear down other dudes like a smug school yard bully? This is what you've been doing since page one of this thread. I try not to use the term white knight but if the shoe fits.

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Old 09-29-2015, 05:57 AM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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Actually, I would think there is something wrong with a Mom, if she didn't expect you to take an active role in her family. I don't know of any woman that wants another "Dad" for her family, and I have know a lot of them, but they did expect the Man to fill a void, as a Male Partner to the Mother. That's a desirable trait to me. I wouldn't go so far as calling that being a "Sucker."

Actually, I would love to see the type of woman that would date you. It would be interesting, given how you feel about Relationships. Bet she would be a winner.

1. Don't like Kids
2. Don't want anything to do with one who has kids
3. Don't want to deal with any problems she may have
4. Don't want any Baggage attached.

What exactly do you have to contribute to a relationship?
So basically us childfree and dudes who don't date single moms for valid reasons are basically Hitler's sons to you eh? This ain't 1950, not everyone wants kids.

You obviously don't know 49ersfan. Despite his struggles/frustration in dating and how he expresses it sometimes, he comes off as a decent dude otherwise. I would bet he would make a lot of women happy to have him.
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Old 09-29-2015, 05:59 AM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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Boris, do you seriously think that every single woman out in the world wants kids? Because that's honestly what it sounds like.

Also does it make you feel better to tear down other dudes like a smug school yard bully? This is what you've been doing since page one of this thread. I try not to use the term white knight but if the shoe fits.
And that from a older dude who claims to have our generation "pegged." I still don't know what that means. But I would think that an older person should know better than to talk down to people.
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