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Old 09-30-2015, 07:32 PM
 
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So after 2ys.. good guy friend of mine wants to reconnect with me..He reached out to me via Linked in....
So far we have been communicating via text with small talk. He finally asks me if I want to chat via phone. So we set a time and I reach out to him asking if its a good time to call and that I'm looking forward to catching up. Well of course he reneges on the time... This is once of the things I really disliked about him(Not being mindful of others and with no concept of time.) Just need to know how to handle as I don't want to appear too thirsty.























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Old 09-30-2015, 07:38 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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So after 2ys.. good guy friend of mine wants to reconnect with me..He reached out to me via Linked in....
So far we have been communicating via text with small talk. He finally asks me if I want to chat via phone. So we set a time and I reach out to him asking if its a good time to call and that I'm looking forward to catching up. Well of course he reneges on the time... This is once of the things I really disliked about him(Not being mindful of others and with no concept of time.) Just need to know how to handle as I don't want to appear too thirsty.
What DO you want???
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Old 09-30-2015, 07:42 PM
 
Location: South Wales, United Kingdom
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Is this a friend or ex? One thing I know is that people DO NOT change over the years.
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Old 09-30-2015, 07:44 PM
 
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Guess..Im a little despondent because he has not reached back out....Its not like I initiated the whole thing....
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Old 09-30-2015, 07:50 PM
 
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Is this a friend or ex? One thing I know is that people DO NOT change over the years.
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Old 09-30-2015, 07:51 PM
 
Location: South Wales, United Kingdom
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He doesn't sound very reliable.
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Old 09-30-2015, 07:54 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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fling
Why him? A fling is pretty easy for women to get.

He knows you'll still go along with whatever no matter how rude he is. He's just making sure you are used to it right from the start.
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Old 09-30-2015, 07:57 PM
 
Location: South Wales, United Kingdom
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Also, you have to ask yourself why it didn't work out before and do you want to go there again?
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Old 09-30-2015, 07:59 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Why him? A fling is pretty easy for women to get.

He knows you'll still go along with whatever no matter how rude he is. He's just making sure you are used to it right from the start.
I agree. He's setting the baseline.

Don't do it, girl. You can't be THAT thirsty.
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Old 09-30-2015, 08:04 PM
 
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Thanks for the responses...Just needed the validation is all...How do I tell him that his actions were rude without sounding pressed about it?
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