She Ghosted Me Immediately after the First Date - Any Chance for a 2nd? (boyfriend, girls)

[TMBGBlueCanary]

Originally Posted by ElysianEagle

It wasn't a date if she brought her sister along

She probably thought the three of you were just hangin out, nothing more.

That was my thought. The "date" ended as soon as the sister came along--before it began. Sorry OP, I think you should forget her and move on.

[Just A Guy]

Originally Posted by Astral_Weeks

So my bottom line questions are:
1. Is she in fact "ghosting" me as in blowing me off and no longer interested?

2a. If that is the case, what and when is my next move to possibly get her to reconsider a second date?

2b. or do I just let it go and move on the next prospect? By moving on I either find someone else or perhaps "absence makes the heart grow fonder" and she might contact me in the future?

Most likely number 1.

#2 and #3 are both self-defeating.

[cindersslipper]

Originally Posted by timberline742

There is a HUGE difference. It is called class and politeness. Just disappearing is rude.

How we conduct ourselves when things aren't going well is just as, if not more, important than how we do so when things are going great.

This is a fundamental truth, and basic manners. In other words, don't be a d*ck.

I've gotta ask - just how CLASSY is it to hit on a Promotional model just because she's there?

[timberline742]

Originally Posted by cindersslipper

I've gotta ask - just how CLASSY is it to hit on a Promotional model just because she's there?

It's not. It isn't classy at all. But neither is ghosting someone.

Maybe they deserve each other!

[UnaWilde]

Originally Posted by cindersslipper

I've gotta ask - just how CLASSY is it to hit on a Promotional model just because she's there?

No less classy than hitting on her at the bar.

[cindersslipper]

Originally Posted by UnaWilde

No less classy than hitting on her at the bar.

she was WORKING.

You know, trying to earn a living.

Then every PUA in town cruises into her work space and thinks "IMMA HIT THAT"

[Hivemind31]

Originally Posted by cindersslipper

she was WORKING.

You know, trying to earn a living.

Then every PUA in town cruises into her work space and thinks "IMMA HIT THAT"

Who said anything about PUA? Nobody.

[cindersslipper]

Originally Posted by Hivemind31

Who said anything about PUA? Nobody.

Me.

I did.

A guy asks a Promotional Model out for a date.

She was working, he was presumably an onlooker

if this is not PUA at work, then what is?

[Hivemind31]

Originally Posted by cindersslipper

Me.

I did.

A guy asks a Promotional Model out for a date.

She was working, he was presumably an onlooker

if this is not PUA at work, then what is?

No wonder you post about PUA so much, if you think that anybody who ever tries to pick someone up at work is secretly a card-carrying pick-up artist.

Trying to pick someone up at work? Tacky. Automatically associating them with a commonly-disliked community? Stupid. It's no different than if a woman does something distasteful and is automatically labeled a "feminazi"

"Reductio ad pickupem", if you will

[cindersslipper]

"if you will" - the most ANNOYING phrase in the English language?