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Old 10-02-2015, 06:23 PM
 
Location: Northville, MI
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Be honest, and tell him what motivated you to cheat. Don't hide it on the inside. Tell him what you feel is "missing".

Talk with your husband, whatever it is. Communication might save the relationship and will provide peace of mind. Hiding it causes disaster.
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Old 10-02-2015, 06:26 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Something tells me she did not realise what was missing until she started communicating with the guy.
Not entirely accurate.
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Old 10-02-2015, 06:39 PM
 
Location: TN
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Be honest, and tell him what motivated you to cheat. Don't hide it on the inside. Tell him what you feel is "missing".

Talk with your husband, whatever it is. Communication might save the relationship and will provide peace of mind. Hiding it causes disaster.
Maybe I'm just a selfish witch
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Old 10-02-2015, 06:57 PM
 
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Op the more you respond, the more this whole thread just seems like utter bull shyte. It started out plausible, but it's just far fetched and odd now. Like a retarded episode of catfish
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Old 10-02-2015, 06:59 PM
 
Location: TN
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Wtf Tenor? It's 100% true. What thrill do you get out of questioning my sincerity? That's so f-ing cruel you jerk.
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Old 10-02-2015, 07:01 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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Maybe I'm just a selfish witch
At the least you have ended it and hopfully won't make the same mistake again?
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Old 10-02-2015, 07:03 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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Op the more you respond, the more this whole thread just seems like utter bull shyte. It started out plausible, but it's just far fetched and odd now. Like a retarded episode of catfish
That's a bit strong!

She's asking for advice not to be talked to like that!
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Old 10-02-2015, 07:24 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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How did you think this would end?
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Old 10-02-2015, 07:31 PM
 
Location: TN
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I was hoping we'd eventually come to a mutual agreement to ........

I don't even know anymore. I'm so lost, and tired, and feeling like a part of my heart has been ripped out of my chest. I'm going to sleep before my husband gets home so he doesn't have to see me like this. He's got so much to worry about without me adding to it.
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Old 10-02-2015, 07:32 PM
 
Location: Canada
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Maybe I'm just a selfish witch
Maybe that's the question you NEED to work out..Do you feel guilty?? I think so otherwise you have never even acknowledged your dilemma...What you are experiencing is actually some level of guilt right along with the LACK of something for some reason you are missing with your super husband..Good provider/good looking/good parent..BUT BUT what was/is missing in THAT connection??

Sorry to pound this to death..I will never go into such blame game like some others..but stepping back and getting ( besides online C-D opinionated inputs) some 3rd party who would genially consider what's missing in your marriage may be more appropriate..

As I said previously..chaplain/pastor/priest/minister just may be a good sounding board for you considering your tight budget...Also..disregard armchair JUDGEMENTs...as it's very common on this board..but that's how the world turns in cyberspace...

Please seek outside venue to vent/gain some insight and maybe you can figure it out..

BUT..one thing ..IF your total relationship ( you and married friend) is strictly based on internet discussions ( regardless if you know he is a real person or not)...I would question why (in the first place ) you actually needed such a relationship in the first place?..

As some have mentioned..while it's convenient..more often than not, predators can and often do prey on anyone's weaknesses..Just a word to the wise there.
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