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Old 10-08-2015, 10:34 AM
 
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I don't know. Have you seen Chris Crocker lately? The "leave Britney alone" guy? I don't find him sexually attractive, but he's gorgeous and fun to look at.

TBH, I think the most beautiful people have some element of the opposite sex about them, whether it's men with longer eyelashes or "softer" eyes or women with stronger or more angular bone structure. There's a reason men like Brad Pitt and women like Uma Thurman are sex symbols.
No idea who he is. Looked up his pics and he doesn't do anything for me. Different strokes though.
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Old 10-08-2015, 11:15 AM
 
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What does being a doctor have to do with gay men and who they date?
Come on, you've never heard the phrase "I'm not a doctor but..... (I play one on TV)?"

(BTW: It comes from a TV commercial in the 80s.....but don't ask me for what or who the actor was.)

It has come to mean "I'm not an expert but the answer to *^*insert topic here*^* is pretty damn obvious.
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Old 10-08-2015, 11:23 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Maybe the OP has watched this too many times…

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X-YCdcnf_P8

Hahahaha!

And in all fairness - I can't imagine anyone not thinking Matt Bomer is gorgeous. But I don't want to sleep with him. Because he wants to sleep with men. And I'm not a man. But I can appreciate his immense beauty! Appreciating attractiveness and lusting after someone are two different things.
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Old 10-08-2015, 12:06 PM
 
Location: Virginia
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I just wonder about this and how true is it that woman tend to find gay men more attractive than straight men whats the secret in this?
Are they more likely to date gay men? and have a relationship with them
That is women for you. They say people want what they can have. Maybe there is a missing screw or two in those heads. I am glad I am a man.
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Old 10-08-2015, 12:31 PM
 
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Hahahaha!

And in all fairness - I can't imagine anyone not thinking Matt Bomer is gorgeous. But I don't want to sleep with him. Because he wants to sleep with men. And I'm not a man. But I can appreciate his immense beauty! Appreciating attractiveness and lusting after someone are two different things.
I still lust after gay men. It's really no different than lusting after straight men who I'll never have.
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Old 10-08-2015, 12:32 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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I still lust after gay men. It's really no different than lusting after straight men who I'll never have.
Maybe I'm just different but once I know that someone will never be turned on by me, I'm not turned on by them. I can still appreciate the beauty but it doesn't turn me on.
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Old 10-08-2015, 12:41 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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Maybe I'm just different but once I know that someone will never be turned on by me, I'm not turned on by them. I can still appreciate the beauty but it doesn't turn me on.
I can see that, but it's still pretty harmless to have a celebrity crush on a Bomer or a Neil Patrick Harris. It's not like their sexuality is the only thing that's keeping us apart...
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Old 10-08-2015, 12:43 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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I can see that, but it's still pretty harmless to have a celebrity crush on a Bomer or a Neil Patrick Harris. It's not like their sexuality is the only thing that's keeping us apart...
Hahaha!

Still, I don't think that this means that women are having relationships with gay men and not straight men!
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Old 10-08-2015, 12:46 PM
 
Location: Free From The Oppressive State
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I just wonder about this and how true is it that woman tend to find gay men more attractive than straight men whats the secret in this?
Are they more likely to date gay men? and have a relationship with them
You should ask why "some" are, because not all of us are. I don't find gay men to be attractive at all. That's not to say that they are all ugly and horrid. It means I'm not attracted to them, hence I do not find them attractive.
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Old 10-08-2015, 12:50 PM
 
Location: Free From The Oppressive State
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Maybe the OP has watched this too many times…

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X-YCdcnf_P8

Hahahaha!

And in all fairness - I can't imagine anyone not thinking Matt Bomer is gorgeous. But I don't want to sleep with him. Because he wants to sleep with men. And I'm not a man. But I can appreciate his immense beauty! Appreciating attractiveness and lusting after someone are two different things.
Eh, he looks ok, but does nothing for me. (Had to look him up.) What kills it for me is the softness that shows up on his face.
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