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Old 10-08-2015, 12:26 PM
 
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I am not going to lie- some people don't like experiments. If we have been together for 10 years and you start experimenting without my consent, you will be saddened by the fact that I will go out and get chipotle and eat it right in front of you.

I am luck because I communicate from the go. We know what we like and don't. We don't experiment or else feelings get hurt.
LOL-- when I experiment, I just tell him "don't worry you'll like it". If it were up to him, we'd be eating meatloaf every night. I do make a good meatloaf, but change is good.
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Old 10-08-2015, 12:29 PM
 
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I am not going to lie- some people don't like experiments. If we have been together for 10 years and you start experimenting without my consent, you will be saddened by the fact that I will go out and get chipotle and eat it right in front of you.

I am luck because I communicate from the go. We know what we like and don't. We don't experiment or else feelings get hurt.

It would happen often because at my age I do not ask permission to do anything.

As fas as the fast food crap you go get, so what, I don't eat fast food and you can count on eating fast food from that moment on unless you cook for yourself.
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Old 10-08-2015, 12:31 PM
 
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He isn't critiquing your effort, he is wondering if a slice of pie is all their is going to be to eat tonight.
This. I thought the same thing to myself when my eyes skipped to the bottom. I don't think he meant anything harmful by it.
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Old 10-08-2015, 12:35 PM
 
Location: east coast
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LOL-- when I experiment, I just tell him "don't worry you'll like it". If it were up to him, we'd be eating meatloaf every night. I do make a good meatloaf, but change is good.
Oh, you are good. I don't mind experiments but with the foods I like. I dated a person for 5 years and she, despite she knowing exactly the foods I did and didn't like, would always change up and add something. It drove me crazy. But I finally figured her out. We barely argued. But some people get a kick out of pushing your buttons. So when she wanted attention, she put in onions and acted like she forgot...
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Old 10-08-2015, 12:38 PM
 
Location: east coast
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It would happen often because at my age I do not ask permission to do anything.

As fas as the fast food crap you go get, so what, I don't eat fast food and you can count on eating fast food from that moment on unless you cook for yourself.
But if you know exactly what I eat and you deliberately cook things fully knowing I don't like them, then who is fooling who? Next time I will paint the bathroom orange- without your permission...
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Old 10-08-2015, 12:39 PM
 
Location: I'm around here someplace :)
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But if you know exactly what I eat and you deliberately cook things fully knowing I don't like them, then who is fooling who? Next time I will paint the bathroom orange- without your permission...
That's a good approach!!
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Old 10-08-2015, 12:39 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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Oh, you are good. I don't mind experiments but with the foods I like.
But, as we say to small children, how do you know you'll like something unless you try it?

As for general eating habits, that's something that comes up a lot. I know many women would be happy having cheese and crackers or a bowl of cereal for dinner, but their husbands/boyfriends expect some huge, elaborate, meat-based meal.
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Old 10-08-2015, 12:40 PM
 
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Today, I'm making a new recipe. It is one of the most popular recipes from a restaurant my husband and I recently visited.
It is a Tomato Pie with a cheese topping.

This morning,
I diced 4 cups of tomatoes and roasted them in the oven.
I also spent 2 hours caramelizing onions.
I went to the store to get more tomatoes and some expensive cheese.
In a little while I will,
Dice 3 more cups of tomatoes and drain them.
Make the dough and bake a pie crust.
Later, I will assemble the pie, and make the topping, and bake it.

So, I told DH I was making a tomato pie for dinner, and he says, "Is that all we're having?"
Wow. I just get frozen pie shells, slice some tomatoes from the garden, a few green onions, maybe basil, mayo, salt, pepper and shredded cheddar cheese, through it together and Bam. done.

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Just for the record, Tomato Pie is a southern main dish. (So I hear, but I'm a Yankee).
Not really, maybe for a light lunch.
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Old 10-08-2015, 12:40 PM
 
Location: I'm around here someplace :)
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But, as we say to small children, how do you know you'll like something unless you try it?
I've never been in a car wreck, but don't need to try it to see if I might like it.
Same with weird foods.
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Old 10-08-2015, 12:44 PM
 
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Ha ha. He gets plenty of man food. He is really a good sport about whatever experimental foods I subject him too. I thought it was funny how clueless men are sometimes.

Just for the record, Tomato Pie is a southern main dish. (So I hear, but I'm a Yankee).
I've lived in the south all my life, born & raised, and I've never heard of it.

Wait, 2 hours to caramelize onions? Were you using a cigarette lighter?
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